well he ask if we could be friends but i want more then that and he is getting marryed now and it hurts me i keep saying it should have been me and i cry myself to sleep every night and i dream about him and wake up sometimes crying my eyes out i have tryed to move on and date other people but they do me wrong like say i have to have sex with them sick crap like that and when that happens i get to thinking about how sweet my ex"s was to me he respcted me alot were others have not i still love him so much and miss him alot i miss haveing some one to hold me in there arms but mostly his arms it hurts so much to know he is getting marryed see he wanted to be friends because his job got in the way why is it when i find a nices sweet guy like him there job gets in the way please help tell me what to do i send him a wedding card in the mail trying to be nices but i am hurting my heart says he is the right guy for me and he is the only one for me i thought i could stop looking??? help??????
2006-06-29 03:13:48 · 14 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl he made his choice and i can see you really love him take it from me i bet everyone you have spoken to tell you to try and forget about him , dont try and forget about him try and think about you , your life is on a stand still for what , for a man that dont know what he just lost i dont think the girl he's going to marry love him the way you love him. Keep yourself strong and get something els to do , dont start dating now do something that you wanted to do but you couldn't because you wanted to be with him . There is no more him do sports or go speak to a professional for some advice.
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2006-06-29 03:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear, i know it hurts but at this point there's nothing you can do about it. He's decided to marry, may be you didn't have all what he wanted. Pick yourself up and move on. With time you will forget all about it. There are so many men out there with more of what you want.
2006-06-29 10:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Treez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry to hear honey.but the question is he inlove with you...if he's not ...well obviously he's marrying someone else.Just let it go and move on...it will be hard ..real hard but god's with you an dhe will provide that strenght.Oh does ur ex knows your still inlove with him.I say leave him alone...he's already moved on heck he's getting married.You will find another guy soon and then you will look back and say i am happy things worked out the way they did.Good Luck...Don't worry u will be fine.
2006-06-29 10:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by mshollywood20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings but he has made his choice and you need to respect his feelings for this other woman. If it's not meant to be between them then by all means contact him and tell him how you feel. However you must not make trouble for him now, for whatever the reason it didn't work out between the two of you before. You'll meet someone, there is someone out there for everyone. Good luck :-)
2006-06-29 10:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u shud let him kno b4 he gets married how u honestly feel mayb he feels the sm way but is afraid well maybnot but i feel u shud tell him how u feel b4 he does a life changing thing and if it dont work out then everything happens for a reason go out there i know it may seem hes #1 but obviously not if he let u go u seem like a cool person i hope it works out for u
2006-06-29 10:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Curious Stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be friends with your ex. Life is too short for all this sadness. Love is not perfect and it's going to hurt. It takes time to heal but you need to still move on with your life and experience new things and new people you might be surpurised of what you find.
2006-06-29 10:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to believe right now, but you will get over him one day. don't settle for the jerks you've described going out with. there is someone out there that won't treat you that way. it's hard, but he's getting married and if you try to interfere with that, then you may loose his friendship as well.
2006-06-29 10:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has moved on and so should you. I know it's hard, but if he truely is the love of your life, somehow, someway, someday, you'll be together. In the meantime, focus on yourself and do things for you, no one else.
2006-06-29 10:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Troy S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how u feel u know it never to late!! ..... If he cant change anything for u then u need to realize that he has moved on and u need to ..too.... Good luck
2006-06-29 10:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.. i'm so sorry... this totally stinks.... try to just go out with some new people no matter how hard it is... you never know.. you could wind up falling this much for someone else.. good luck =]
2006-06-29 10:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋