omg what would you do???

Question

My 6 year old daughter and a almost 7 year old boy were caught trying to have sex with her licking his penis and him sucking her boobs and licking her vagina.he was trying to stick his penis in her. he was lying on top of her.

this did not happen to me it is a what would you do question

so what would you do.

srry about being so graphic about details but it was in a book.Me and my cousin are testing if you get better answers on yahoo answers or google.

Answer 1

You came to the wrong place if you're looking for mature answers.

When I was about 5, my 5 year old neighbor (who was also a girl) and I were playing house. She, apparently, had walked in on her parents and got told the basics of the "birds and the bees," so she thought this was a part of playing house. She said before we could bring our baby dolls into the picture, we had to "do sex." For some reason, this alarmed me terribly (even though I was clueless about sex at that age) and I marched out and went home. My mom handled the situation by talking to my friend's mother and then giving me a basic run over of how sex worked. No graphic details, aside from showing me one non-graphic picture of a sketch of a couple in the missionary position that was in her college sex ed book.

That's how I would handle such a situation with my own child, finding out for sure where they got such an idea from and whose idea it was originally. It could have been absolutely innocent, the little boy could've accidentally found a magazine or video he wasn't supposed to or walked in on mommy and daddy in the act and saw how much they liked it. But you've got to explain to a child the consequences of such actions. Making sex a taboo for children can cause some serious psychological problems in adulthood, so you've got to lay down the facts without being condescending.

Answer 2

I would stop the action, call the boys mother and tell her what happened. Watch what they are watching because they might just be imitating and if you have older children watch them too, they could be doing that in your home. The 2 children might have been sexually abuse. If it was one of your kids i would ask what they think they were doing and find that out. the other child would be harder to tell. I would also ask them if they knew what they were doing because they might not know it's bad. They could just be curious but i might start talking about the birds and the bees i know they are young. Girls get there periods younger and younger as years go on. On average the puberty date for girls is 10 yrs old- saying the could be 1 or 2 years older or younger. Many people say its the hormones in the meat,or if a child is overweight and some people say it because the health care is better then 20 yrs ago.

Answer 3

Exactly the same thing that I did when I found graphic drawings that were done by my (then) 10 year old daughter's hand. Ask where they learned this and start from there. Find out how much info they have and decide what needs to be corrected. Then talk to the boy's parents and let them know what happened and the info that they gave you. And tell them only what is age appropriate for them to know. Hopefully, you would be able to work with the other parents to keep the children properly educated.

Answer 4

First off, you need to report this boy's family to child protective services. The only way a boy that age could know such detail about sexual matters is either he has seen it performed in his home, or he has been allowed to watch X-rated movies. Either way, this boy and his family needs help.

Secondly, you need to have a long talk with your daughter about what was going on. Find out how it got started, and then explain to her why such actions were very inappropriate for a girl her age. She also needs to go to see a professional counselor as soon as you can get the appointment scheduled!! Something like this could have long lasting effects if it is not dealt with quickly and properly.

You also should find a counselor to help you through this crisis. I cannot even start to imagine the pain and grief you have exprienced. My prayers will be with you and your daughter! May God give you his wisdom and strength!

Answer 5

So your cousin knows about this and now you are asking the comparing answers on google and yahoo. Sounds like your entire family needs help. You stated that it was your 6 and (almost) 7 year son (so did you get pg right after giving birth or what?). And then you say this did not happen to you? You've been reported.

Answer 6

I'd start with a meeting of the parents to see if I could discover where a child of this age is acquiring the examples that they tried to practise. If the child is being exposed to porn at home or at school then I would take appropriate action to correct that by reports to child welfare.
Have a talk with my child to educate on the matter and explain why it is inappropriate for young children.
No more contact with the boy..anywhere...anytime

Answer 7

What are the children exposed to that they even know how to do this? When I was that young, I would have never known to do any of that! Keep a closer eye on what the child is watching or listening to. That is ridiculous.

Answer 8

first i would stop the act and find where in the heck they would have learned this stuff in so many details!! than i would be sure to explain the birds and bees because they are obviously curious. and apparently mom and dad would need to be a little less affectionate around the little ones. wow i guess i just have so much i would do.....

Answer 9

Counseling

Answer 10

Your daughter needs counseling and a therapist. Talk to the parents or guardians of this boy.