Where does one find intelligent, kind, single women in their 30s-40s? I have no doubt that they are out there?

Question

I would have included attractive, but I hit my character quota above. This question is not meant facetiously. The quantity really does seem to exceed the quality.

Answer 1

I fit all that except the single.

Answer 2

They DO exist....and in answer to your question, I will ask what all those women who's qualities you desire ask all the time....

Where are all those wonderfully romantic, caring, loving, intelligent, HONEST single men in their 30s-40s?

I did NOT include attractive...because you see, I have a broader mind than to include "good looking", etc.... Why? Because from my experience, and my taste....it really doesn't matter what he looks like....I tend to look deeper than the surface at first. And just so you know I'm not a tall-tale teller...the last man I dated for 2 years, wasn't good looking, or handsome, or attractive at all....but his personality was awesome! Unfortunately, I learned the hard way, I wasn't the only woman who thought he was all the above I've already listed....the honesty part was missing....too bad I found out too late...

Answer 3

My daughter asked me the same question but in reverse. She moved several states away and after living and working there a couple of years she called late one night crying because she was lonely. She is a beautiful girl but she said most of the men she met were either married or had girlfriends and she loved where she lived but was considering moving back to her home town. Even though I wanted her to move back more than anything I wanted her to be happy. I told her if that was the only reason for moving she needed to give it one more try. My advice to her was go to church, even though she was raised in the church she was not actively involved in one at this time. I told her it was because of where she was trying to meet a nice guy that was the problem. She found a wonderful church with a large adult group. She became so envolved that she plans the outings, trips, sking, boating, parties she is always busy and every weekend they are doing something different. She attends home study groups and now she not only has many friends but she found the love of her life. Good, honest, beautiful women are under the church steeple. Not to mention intellignet, my daughter graduated college cume laud and she was smart enough to listen to mom. Good luck

Answer 4

you can always go to the library and check out the woman there, especially the ones who read books to children. A woman who loves to read books for kids is always a loving woman who enjoys the company of anybody. It's always good to also have a kid with you that you know who needs help in a project, that way, you can get her attention by asking her: "excuse me, but can you help my nephew or niece on a book he/she is looking for to finish their project?"

Answer 5

They are out there. Where are all the single guys with jobs, teeth and little to no baggage? Probably the same place all us single girls are... seemingly no where

Answer 6

I have no doubt they are there too
they just don't want to be involved with trolls like you

Answer 7

That is me...of course...but I am way too much for ANY Guy to handle!!

Answer 8

i think i qualify but not with the age...im 24

Answer 9

They do not exist!