i like him a lot and i am sure that he will be my best partner.my parents r not ready to agree with us.i can't live without him happily and he is also interested in this.he is very well settled.plz suggest me
2006-06-29 02:51:30 · 13 answers · asked by icy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You are probably too young and they want you to experience life. Go hang out in the Marriage and Divorce section and listen to the reason people got divorced. "I was too young' is what they say 90% of the time.
2006-06-29 02:55:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the person who is to be your partner for life why do you need to get married so soon. Forever is a long time and can start a year or two from now. I married young and think we should have waited a couple of years. I think we needed some space & time to grow up and learn some life lessons that you miss out on when you are married. I have been married 26 years and would marry my husband all over again but I would have waited 2 years to say I do. If you really love each other 2 years is not very long. At that point your parents may have different thoughts. Remember sex is not love. Love is putting the other person first always before your needs do you do that and does he do that?
2006-06-29 03:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on your age and your maturity level, your parents might be right. Just because you are beat friends and you are interested in each other, that doesn't mean you are meant to be together. Take the time to REALLY get to know each other, then make a decision. Being in a relationship with someone is not he same as being best friends. People change, sometimes for the worst....
2006-06-29 02:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation seems very similar to the Japanese culture. Japanese families are very picky about who joins their family. How I know this, I used to have a Japanese roommate that told me that his parents don't approve of his girlfriend just because she comes from the wrong side of the town. It is kind of like wealthy families not marrying greasers.
You may become isolated from your family if you go ahead with it for a few years, but I say everything will get worked out as long as you parents are understanding and forgiving.
2006-06-29 02:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not you think that the right order of things is that he pops the question??
As long as he has not asked you to marry him - you are living in an illusion. If you are best friends with a man - you are either a friend (so not a possible marriage candidate) or he pops the question.
My feeling is that you should get your feet on the ground.
2006-06-29 02:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you said you "like him a lot" instead of love him tells me it is not a good idea. I don't know how old you are but if a marriage isn't based on love than it will never work. If you marry him and you don't honestly love him and want to make a lifetime commitment to him than you will lose a husband and a friend.
2006-06-29 03:37:44 · answer #6 · answered by meggiek97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's on the subject rely of you i've got faith that's no longer wholesome, there must be wellness issues of your destiny toddlers and a few human beings evaluate it to be immoral. even though, in case you quite love him then you definately could desire to speak on your mum and dad with reference to the variety you experience and clarify to them that this guy ability lots to you. i do no longer think of you need to circulate against your mum and dad as you will could desire to place self belief in them for something of your existence. Maye no longer each and all of the time, yet you will desire them. in case you and this guy are quite meant to be then you definately ought to combat for what you have faith in and combat on your love. I desire you each and all of the terrific and that i'm hoping this finally ends up for the terrific.
2016-10-31 22:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by harib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents may be trying to protect you because if you two get together and then break up there is a chance of loosing that one special friend then when you have a problem you cant go to him. but if he is all you can think about in the mourning afternoon and night then i think you know what to do already
2006-06-29 02:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need your parents' permission? If you're old enough to get married, you're old enough to make your own decisions. From your question, I don't think you're ready for marriage. Listen to your parents.
2006-06-29 02:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Mollyismydog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?? well not every thing parents know.. if you think you really love this guy and he really do and your sure for each other.. so both of you need to talk to your parents and ask for thier blessing.. if they still disagree time will past and they will give you their blessing and they will love this guy that you love.. good luck :D
2006-06-29 02:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Terry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋