....end a relationship for the fear that their partner will start a vendetta of one-upmanship? Thanks!
PS, yes I am referring to myself here!
2006-06-29 02:35:32 · 9 answers · asked by DaveyMcB 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Courage is not needed. You just need to be sure that you are doing the right thing. If in your heart of heart you know that ending this relationship is the right thing to do, then it is not courage but logic that is needed!
2006-06-29 02:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by ginpitwarrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't start a vendetta if you simply ignore her actions. Break it off as nicely as possible and then just stop speaking to her or taking her calls if you can. Eventually she will go away as long as she is getting NO reaction from you.
2006-06-29 09:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about this then I can see why you want to end your relationship. She doesn't sound very charming. My advice would be, work up the courage! You need to get out of this immature relationship as soon as you can. Good luck with that.
2006-06-29 09:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should try to be as nice as you can, finishing a relationship is always hard, even if you really finish it! To the other part, it´s suppoussed to he harder. So you should be nice and explanatory, and NOT (for instance) finish it by the phone (it would be very coward from you)
You shoul really understand the feelings from the other part, even if there´s no more love. If you can do it, there will be no revenge.
2006-06-29 09:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mariela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, very common, don't worry, but the best thing to do is to end it anyway, you might be fearing nothing, it might not be at that bad after all, but you can't be sure until you dump her. Hope that helped!
2006-06-29 09:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by adozenredroses12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the duty of the police to protect people from violent one and so you are a free citizen to fall for or leave them and if they become silly and violent report them to the police and they will be dealt with accordingly.
2006-06-29 09:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by God you are my all in all in Jesus' name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that only applies if your soon to be ex is a psychotic bint and cares of nothing but hurting people
2006-06-29 09:38:53 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then how long will you remain in that miserable relationship.You just have to do it if it comes to that,you will tackle the rest later.
2006-06-29 09:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a coward dies a 1000 deaths...
the brave man just gets stalked...
2006-06-29 09:39:10 · answer #9 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋