2006-06-29 02:33:23 · 21 answers · asked by underworld2289 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We notice you......but most of us like to be pursued, and desired. We're waiting for you to approach us! You want to be desired? Act desirable........
2006-06-29 02:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah....Life's greatest mystery. To be honest, I can't speak for the entire female population when I say this. I can only speak for myself.
But to me...a guy with all the smarts and looks in the world isn't worth much unless they have the confidence in themselves to know what a catch they really are. Insecurity is very unflattering in a man. A woman typically looks for a strong, confident man who THEY know can handle themselves and can be a good provider of support (emotionally, I mean...not just the wallet). So as cute or as intelligent a man can be, if he doesn't have a positive self image, confidence, and know what they want....a woman will not bite the bait. Confidence shines from the inside out so if the lights are not on, nobody will knock.
2006-06-29 02:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously smarts are not noticed until you meet and get to know someone. But looks only goes so far with women. They will notice a guy then it's natural for them to act like they don't notice them. Kind of makes it impossible to know who's got their eye on us, huh? Good looking men need to approach women, only then will we be noticed. But to do this, we need to risk rejection, which is something some guys are not willing to do.
2006-06-29 02:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are smart and good looking, someone has noticed and you just don't realize it. Most of us girls are waiting for you to make a move in our direction. There are some women who are bold, but most of us still wait for the guy to make a move. Put yourself out there and take a chance. You will pleasantly suprised to find they are more interested than you realized.
2006-06-29 02:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls notice you alright. But sometimes we think you guys look for too much in a woman.. The same goes for us beautiful women too. We don't just take on a guy because he notices us. We are picky and choosy.
2006-06-29 02:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by preferablyyoung 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have noticed you, but YOU haven't noticed that they have noticed you, because you are to busy looking in the mirror noticing how good looking and smart you are...
2006-06-29 02:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me...you're noticed! Some of us girls think WE'RE the ones not being noticed. Make a move!
2006-06-29 02:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by ophee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it isn't really about how you can make her see you--its about how you make her feel about herself.
Concentrate on making the girls around you feel smart and good looking, and you will have you pick!
2006-06-29 02:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Torero In Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you think no one notices you when in fact that girl in math noticed you. You never know who's watching you when you least expect it.
2006-06-29 02:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by purselover15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do, some pretend others go all teh way it happened to me and sure it will for you.make sure you are not sendingteh wromg message and understand what you really need form a girl and what you can give back as well.
2006-06-29 02:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by samydan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋