my galfriend got married and has two kids .she still loves me can i live with her?
we were in love ...but got seperated due to some reason ..but she gor married to someone else and got 2 kids now ..but she loves me still the same way ..better than her husnband..she get thought of comi g with me ...i too still love her .....wat shall we do
2006-06-29 02:32:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are more infatuated with her than you love her. You got separated and she went to another man, why wouldn't she do it again if she has a problem with you again? Wake up man, this is simple commonsense. She just wants you, she does not need you, and you don't want to be in a relationship where you are just wanted and not needed. Thats not love. You will be used.
What you need is a woman of your own and not one you share with another man. She is that other guy's wife and your seeing her is tantamount to adultery and that is treading on dangerous ground.
Divorce? Well, she can get that to be with youbut are you going to marry her and take in that guy's children as your own? And do you see any reason why she won't divorce you as well when she has a problem with you? Don't be naive, you are believing that she loves you because thats what you want to believe. Sorry old boy but you will be a fool if you lick back what you spat out.
2006-06-29 20:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she knows how you feel thats a good first start, but you have to understand, she is married now. If she leaves her husband and breaks her family, try to make sure that there are more issues in the relationship, other than, she wants to be with you. Its not fair to break a home up because she just wants you.
If they are having other marital problems, you may want to be the bigger person and let her know that you love her with all your heart, but you want to make sure that she is ready for a new relationship with someone before she leaves her husband. Ask her to go to counsling with you and ask her to do the same with her husband.
Love is a strong emotion that can filter away, make sure that her love for you is true and not just because you are in her life at a low point in her marriage.
Also, what you should do while she is going through her maritial problems is, date other women and make sure that what you are wanting to do is a real emotion and not something that was brought about because she is depending so much on your emotionally.
I dont mean to sound unfair, I just really think you should think everything out first.
2006-06-29 02:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by *meh* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves you but yet married another man and had 2 of his kids. Your really asking this question? One would guess if you guys were in love you would not have gotten separated "due to some reason" Go find a woman that is free, this is too much drama.
2006-06-29 02:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by tall_slimm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with getting back together but she really needs to have a closure with her husband and see what the kids feel about you. i'd recommend take things slow as it is a very critical momment for all you guys. good luck:)
2006-06-29 02:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by samydan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. Let things be for now and IF she does leave her hubby, wait for a bit. Then spring on her like the lion you are Simba!
2006-06-29 02:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a very bad idea. But if it's got to happen, wait until the chick is divorced anyway.
2006-06-29 02:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not trust worthy.. she got 2 kids n wants to turn the otherway ! bad idea.. drop her thats the best for u.. cos tomorrow she may end u up n look out for newer guy..
2006-06-30 01:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by nkprashanth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not right. Not unless you want the ruin of so many lives involved; inmcluding two innocent little children
2006-06-29 02:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by dark and beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop having contact with each other, and you should take a class in spelling and grammar. In that order.
2006-06-29 02:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about her husband???comeon she have kids leave her and just forget each other give chance to the kids to live average life
2006-06-29 02:36:41 · answer #10 · answered by batt00ta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋