what will be your feelings, left in you for sex by the time you get married may be 5-6 years down the line. Because during 5-6 years you may have lived and enjoyed your sex life with many partners. What would be your enjoyment level in sex with your husband/wife after marriage. please explain seriously.
2006-06-29 02:07:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not going to say it is right or wrong, I lost mine when I was 15 my lil sis 18 it all depends on the person and if they feel ready. Don't do it because you think the guy will like you better, or you don't want to be the only one not doing it. Because trust me you're not, alot of people aren't. But I see it this way if you feel ready, you are about this person,love, then okay, but if you are not ready then he or she will wait on you and if they don't then they never loved you anyway. Just be care-full there is so much out there right now that you never know. For me though I see it this way you never know what is out there until you test the waters, but i will tell you something, my husband was number 3 and I wish he was number 1. Sex though is as enjoyable as the person makes it. I love sex, not for the feeling but for the creativity. When you love someone enough to spend the rest of your life with, then it can never get boring unless you let it.
2006-06-29 02:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by justalilbirdie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 when I lost my virginity, and am now married to the second person I slept with. I am much happier with my sex life since I have been married, but I think that has to do more with being so comfortable with my husband that I am willing to give myself to him fully. As for is it "right" that is a very personal decision, I feel that I did no wrong in having sex before marriage, but there are many other opinions out there.
2006-06-29 09:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by wily_kitt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it depends on your beliefs. I had sex before marriage to the person that I'm still with today my husband of 10 years this Dec. I lost my virginity to him at age 16 then got pregnant and married . Sometimes I have wondered what it would be like to have been with someone else not that I would ever cheat It is just in the back of my head." What would it have been like."
2006-06-29 09:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no right or wrong answer to this question. As long as you are old enough and mature enough to understand the consequences and risks of having sex (and that you feel you are ready) then there is no reason to believe that you will have exhausted your ability to enjoy sex with your future husband/wife.
For example, Most people fall in love more than once in their lives, and each time they do it is different and special in it's own way. That being said, sex with your future spouse will be special regardless of previous experiences because of the feelings you have for one another.
2006-06-29 09:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 24 right now and I lost my virginity when I was 15. I am getting married next year and I wish I would of waited at least till I was a little more mature, but I don't think I would of been able to wait until I was married to make love to my fiance.
2006-06-29 09:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to be loyal to your spouse and stay away from sex before marriage. You'd never get any enjoyment after marriage if you've been sexually active before marriage. Other than that, I tell you that there would be a minute guilt factor as well when you're having sex with your spouse.
2006-06-29 09:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Silent_Hunter 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin and lost it at 23 (a bit late) and then I married the woman. We have sex all the time and it is great. I think it matters how people feel. I was just wanting to get inside her so much it did not matter.
2006-06-29 09:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to tell you that I think sex before marriage is the only way to go.... don't get me wrong, I think it should be saved for people who have meaningful relationships. I don't feel that sex just for the sake of sex is necessarily right, (like one night stands).
But, on the other hand, sex is an important part of marriage. In my opinion, if you haven't had sex before marriage, how are you supposed to know whether or not you are sexually compatible??
It would sort of be like buying a car you have never driven.... who does that???
2006-06-29 09:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by I Have Questions 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there is a vast spread in people's beliefs on this subject. Personal opinion is that it is better to wait, and there is a large movement of young people making this vow. I lost mine at 19, to the girl I married at 20. I wish we would have waited.
2006-06-29 09:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost it at 25. I was married at 33.
2014-10-05 00:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋