I really have a big big crush on that gorgeous guy, but when he calls, he seems to only want me for sex. Plus, he's not committed at all. What should i do?
2006-06-29 01:40:39 · 28 answers · asked by babychi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should i try to get him committed or just ditch him? :(
2006-06-29 04:58:52 · update #1
He is using you like a cheap hooker.Dump this cretin,you deserve better in life.move on and be happy.
2006-06-29 01:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the situation from the other way round!
If he does not talk about sex, he promise to love you for ever.
He takes you out twice a month for about 3 or 4 months, oh.. he gives you some presents as well.
Then one evening he ask you to his place - this happens on a Friday evening. You like the situation so much that you spent the Saturday as well.
But, the moment you left his place on Sunday evening, that was it. For the next six weeks he refuses to return your call.
Then few days later, you crossed each other at 'Tesco'.
He then told you that he just was not interested any longer.
What would you do?
The point I am trying to make here is the devil you know is better than you do not seem to understand.
If a man tells you that you are nice, you are pretty etc. and he wants to sleep with you.
There are one of two options I think you should do; tell him you like him too and that you will think about his proposals.
If say after a week he calls to ask you again, if he is the type of person you do not like, you can tell him so. Or one of those women's reasons for wanting to talk to a man.
What I dislike most, is some people will say, dump him or stop talking to him, he is going to use you. But, when you put these same people in the same situation, they will simply jump at the chance without second thought.
Life is full of ups and downs, we only need to be very careful what we do day in, day out.
2006-06-29 09:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by private_footballfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, at first people are normally sexually attracted to each other. Are you friends... does he know you? If he doesn't know your personality yet then a sexual attraction is what he likes about you... don't hate him for it, sex is a very personal thing between to people, if he just wanted meaningless sex he could go to a hooker, if he likes you and wants to pleasure you with sex then you should definitely keep him... ESPECIALLY if he is a hottie.
Don't lose him yet, you have to connect on different levels over long periods of time. If you have sexual relations a full blown relationship may blossom... give him a chance!
2006-06-29 08:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Christian S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys want sex, what you need to find is a guy who can put something other than his own desires first in a relationship.
This guy will only hurt you! I guarantee it!! Please let him go, but whatever you do don't have sex with him - it will not be worth it once you meet the right guy.
2006-06-29 08:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by zqizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sex is great, then "use" the guy for some recreational enjoyment while you find a better guy (trust me, guy's are a dime a dozen - and I'm a guy).
2006-06-29 08:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over your crush on him. He's a jerk. Have one night of hot lusty passions with him and then never look back. He's gorgeous, knows it, and doesn't really care about you.
2006-06-29 08:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl what you need to do is dump him right now. You seem to be only a bootie call to him and that is not how you should want your man to be.
2006-06-29 09:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u r backing a guy who only want sex? so fool of u!!!!!!! i m also a guy and know about the habbits of guys. don't waste ur time and don't spoil your life. he is only in affection of u. a bicycle can not move with a single wheel.
2006-06-29 08:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by solutions_sanjay123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to shag him then shag him but remember that nothing is going to come of it as like you said, he only rings for sex. If you have sex with him, he'll probably go off you and lose his respect for you. Tease him and act like you don't want him, he'll be putty in your hands! Good luck xx
2006-06-29 08:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, get rid of that guy...you kno you can do better than that. No wonder why he isn't committed at all.
2006-06-29 08:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋