okay, so last week my man said he wanted to take things slower and he needed a break to see what he really wanted and moved back to his mothers. well we spent the whole weekend together and talked on the phone sunday night and monday(well i cried on the phone) and now he won't take my calls? half of his stuff is still at my house and all of our pics are still up on his myspace account. WTF is really going on
2006-06-29 01:18:30 · 18 answers · asked by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him time, the last thing he needs is to be smothered. In the end he will either come back to you, or not. Don't chase him away.
2006-06-29 01:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by The_Answerer 3 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think he told you pretty clearly what's going on. He wants some time away from you. It could be because you start crying on the phone all the time or maybe he's seeing someone else, and she was busy this weekend. He probably thought spending the weekend with you would ease his guilt or maybe he wanted to see if you are really worth sticking around for. The girl he's interested in could be someone from his work, and when he saw her on Monday it reminded him that he wants to be single again. Either way, don't be sad, meet other people and maybe you'll find someone that wants to be with you and will return your phone calls.
2006-06-29 08:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could snoop around and find out if he's seeing someone else. I think you should ask him the next time you do talk to him. Guys have a very hard time talking about themselves, so just keep that in mind and don't let it get to you. Or, maybe he really does just need a break to figure things out. I would much rather have a guy who's honest and moves out in order to think clearly than one who tells you every night he loves you but is seeing someone else too, if that is really what he is doing.
2006-06-29 08:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by cocoanutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he doesn't have the guts to tell you that he needs something else. If I were doing what he is doing, I would have to say that he is trying to move on without the confrontation of a break up, or maybe trying to keep his options open in case he decides he can't do better....
2006-06-29 08:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by I Have Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's buying time. When a guy avoids you he's upto something (most of the time) Most likely he's got another girl on the side or is reveiwing his options. Try to sit with him & have a good heart to heart talk with him
2006-06-29 08:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is gonna sound mean...I really don't want to sound that way but you should hear my version of what may be the truth:
I think maybe he's got another girlfriend or wants to play single but wants to keep you hooked in case it doesn't work out.
Sorry again
2006-06-29 08:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is already seeing someone else. Guys don't "need a break" from regular sex. I am guessing he didn't want to have to break up with you outright. He will probably be a jerk until you break up with him. Guys can be a little twisted that way!
2006-06-29 08:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by dh1977 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am very sorry to tell you that this man of yours is cheating you. he is still comparing you with his new lover. what time is he talking about? did you take him from his parents?NO .so what is he trying to say! But for now I'll encourage you to discuss this matter with him.if he reason nonsense ,give him a boot ....
2006-06-29 10:07:36 · answer #8 · answered by ferodza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, he is done. I only can go buy what you described, but that is a scenario that accurately describes someone making big long term plans that you're not a part of anymore. Cheers.
2006-06-29 08:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by ipoddironeus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be rational, wait few days then if you didn't hear from him any thing don't contact him any more and don't break your heart by your hand.
2006-06-29 08:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by anoud s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋