2006-06-28 23:23:04 · 12 answers · asked by mickylicious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he realised that the pair of you were not ready to have children emotionally or financially and was tying to do the best by all of you. Perhaps he would prefe to have children when he feels you are both mature enough to do so and have the money in place to be able to provide comfortably for a family.
2006-06-28 23:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he really loves you, or at least as much as he should. If he loved you, he wouldn't want to put you through such a difficult, sad and self-destructive situation as having an abortion. If he really loved you, he'd find a way to help you with the baby, no matter how hard it would be.
And I don't know why he's gone to London, but did he really have to leave you (even temporarily?)
Just between the two of us, I think you should also think a little bit about how strong-minded he is.
Good luck.
2006-06-29 00:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by Cornflake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember once seeing grafitti on a wall outside an abortion clinic proclaiming 'You rape 'em, we scrape 'em'.
My partner laughed.
I'm sorry, but men just have no concept of what abortion means emotionally or physically to their partner and see it only as a quick fix.
But... not wanting your baby right now does not mean that he does not love you, he is simply not in a position (probably financially or emotionally) to cope. You say you 'thought' you were pregnant, was this a test perhaps?
Either way, do not confuse his actions with his intentions. I hope things work out for you
2006-06-28 23:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by trebs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the incident that led, to two of u thinking dat u were pregnant. In any case,two of u had no intention of marriage before.Your boyfriend(sex partner) knowing dat there was nothing at stake,needed nothing to bind 2 of u together.U didn'tfind out if he'll take risk on your behalf,(dat is strong commitment).He intented to lay a bloody foundation for your relationship if it were to continue.Did he consider the consequences of you entering the theatre for abortion, or taking such deadly pills?I prefer dat u get in touch with him, and call his attention to these things. If he sincerely apologise, then he love, otherwise, run away.
Thank u.
2006-06-28 23:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bestoil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends. It could go both ways. He could be just looking out for himself and he doesn't want a baby in his life or he could be looking out for both of you. he doesn't want you to have the child because he cant be there to help you care for it. But then again he should not even be leaving you if you are pregnant that baby should bring you closer whether it was planned or not God works in mysterious ways.
2006-06-28 23:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, maybe not. That is for you to decide.
He may of wanted you to have an abortion cause he wasn't ready to be a father. He wants time with you, before you settle down.
2006-06-28 23:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way does he love you or the baby you thought you were carrying, it takes 2 to tango and if he did really love you he would accept responsibility...good thing your not pregnant!
2006-06-28 23:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by IrishLassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he still loves you, that is why he doesnt want you to give birth to the baby b/c he knows he is not ready for marrige.
2006-06-28 23:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by aska06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just be either too young to want a child or might not be ready. he might be insecure it doesnt mean he doenst love you
2006-07-05 04:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by hunniewilko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably does but he's gotta career and he's moved away, answer your own question and ask yourself do you love him enough to have his child if he's not wantin it.... and are you ready for it!!!!
2006-06-28 23:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by dannycacklyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋