why is it if a man sleeps around he is cool, but if a woman does it then she is a SLUT? yes I am a male?

Question

I don't know why it bothers me as a male, but it does.

Answer 1

This is a question that women ask all the time. Let me tell you my opinion. As a man, we are the ones that naturally initiate the relationship. That's starting to change a little, but for the most part, it is the guys that have to make the approach, start the small talk, get the phone number, and do all the other work involved in getting a woman interested and in bed. This is not an easy task for most men to accomplish, but when they do it is a big deal. A lot of work was put into this. Many men are too shy, or just don't know how to approach women, so when you can do this on a regular basis, you are "cool". A woman on the other hand is the one that sits back and waits. She chooses the reject or accepts a man request of conversation, to give him her phone number, and maybe to eventually sleep with him. This takes no effort what so ever. All it takes from her is to say yes. And then even if she is the one to make the approach to a man, a man is probably awe stuck that for once it is a woman to make the approach to him. All it takes for her to get laid is a point between her legs, and a proposal for sex.

Answer 2

Society

Answer 3

The question that will never have a real reasponse.
I think its becuase not too many guys are looked on as a Man whore etc etc.
I think theres good guys out there but theres also ones who are just out to get some. So other guys look up to them. As to where a female no one looks up too.
Its a thing that the public has portred as well.

Answer 4

The reason is simple that guys within are very insecured. The creator of the statement would undoubtly be a man and let me tell you that it just dosent bother you but i guess atleast 75 % or more of guys population would be bothered by this thought itself.

Answer 5

Females are like little flowers(delicate and whatever)we on the other hand are like thorns(tough and rugged)would u want a flower thats been used all up?,thats the only way I can put it hope it helps

Answer 6

Because a woman is always expected to be virtuous, because of the 'virginity means hymen' belief., because it's not fair!

Answer 7

I am wondering too.We are supposed to be equal.

Answer 8

because most of people are bad. and they don't care about women.

Answer 9

You answered your own question!!!
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!

Answer 10

where do you live? they are also cool.