I am a virgin and so is my girlfriend and she wants to have sex badly she said, bt im not sure if i am ready. Also if i do hav sex with her i dont want to hurt her and i have heard that she will bleed down there afterwards or someting so wat shall i do. and would i enjoy it as well and would i make her hav and orgasm on her first time. Any help would be thankfull
2006-06-28 22:46:38 · 11 answers · asked by bettergenius 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you´re both virgins let it take it´s natural course, does she want sex because she feels she´s missing out on something, or is it because she truly wants you ?
It only hurts at first and the bleeding is caused by breaking the hymen(her maidenhead). The first time is always a disappointment, but trust me, it gets better, and as you get to know each others bodies better it turns into a wonderful thing. Talk to each other and learn about each others body. Play games and enjoy the feel of one another and it will blossom into the most wonderful experience in the world. Most important of all....... try to understand each others needs. Have fun !!!!!
2006-07-05 23:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by Peter R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel your not ready than you should not have sex now only do when you are certain that it is what you really want or you will regret it. If you are ready then just be slow and gentle and talk to each other there is a possibility it will be uncomfortable for her at first but like i said talk to each other and take it easy
2006-06-29 05:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virgins sure bleed for the 1st time. If you're not ready then don't force yourself. Foreplay is safe.
2006-06-29 05:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by jave7685 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep she will probably bleed and be sore.For yous both to enjoy it you should punch her in the mouth so she will have that pain to worry about instead.
2006-07-06 01:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Benny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt bleed the first time....but if you do you have to go slow and gentle...coz if you go fast and force it in something could tear and she could bleed....im pretty sure you will enjoy it and if she is really enjoying it she will have an orgasm too
2006-06-29 05:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by LoLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well if u think u arent ready.then dont do it.
u shud tell her you arent ready because it wud ruin a relationship if u rush into things because it changes things. and if she really loves u she will wait untill u are ready.
2006-06-29 05:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by GhOsTy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be pressured into something like this carefully as it could make or break a relationship. Keep safe keep cool
2006-06-29 05:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Rui C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you're sure you'll ready, otherwise you won't enjoy the experience.
2006-06-29 05:51:17 · answer #8 · answered by genghis41f 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure shes a virgin? coz it sounds to me like she already got some!!
2006-06-29 05:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by toots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure that you're ready, then don't do it. You will know you're ready when you're ready. As for her pain, I don't know of anything that will ease it.
2006-06-29 05:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by drummer4justus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋