me and my boyfriend have been going out for 10 months. and weve been really happy. but he has this friend whom at the begining i DID not like at all. and today he gives her my number and he said that we needed to fix things at first i was like why? i should have becuase i do not like her and I HAVE VERY GOOD REASONS. but the day went on and we kept fighting and fighting over THIS GIRL and i just kept getting more mad. so i texted her and said. U KNW WHAT. I DONT EVEN KNOW U SO THATS IT im done and im sorry for not liking you. i mean im still EH about her. but now he is saying well how come all of sudden u like her and u hated her guts. DOES ANYTHING PLEASE HIM!!!!! so i give up.
wow did i do something wrong?
2006-06-28 22:05:48 · 13 answers · asked by skdjlkhgfdl; 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he doesn't BELIEVE you're sincere...
2006-06-28 22:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong for starters.
He probably doesn't want you two to be friends,because he thinks it will end up in something bad & wrong.
Maybe you should just break up with him & move on.
Relationships only SEEM difficult.
If there is love for BOTH in the relationship,they SEEM more difficult.
Fighting & arguing only makes you both stronger & more loving.Dont worry about him.Just move on & things will be okay.Forget about the whole episode.
2006-06-29 05:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by inurface012391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I think you could have done wrong was gone out with him.
Are there any specific reasons that he wants you to like her so much?
If you don't like her for valid reasons...he shouldn't push. Make sure that he is trying to do all of this for the right reasons.
If he tries to push you for the wrong reason now...think about what he could try to push on you later on in the relationship. :/
2006-06-29 05:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don´t react, play it cool,your reaction is exactly what he wants. Chances are he´s very uncertain and he´s just testing you. Calm down and take a step back. The more you react the worse it´ll get. When or if he ever gets his act together and decides exactly what he wants from your relationship, it will leave you in the driving seat, then YOU can decide what you want or if you want from him.
2006-06-29 05:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Peter R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry love but it sounds like your boyfriend is possibly two-timing you !......
After 10 months and this problem with the other girl is still happening..Take my advice, get rid of him and find yourself someone nice
2006-06-29 05:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by isa_countrygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, u did alot of things wrong. and i will be happy to tell u how your ******* up. first, u put way too much effort in trying to make this problem go away. if i was faced with this problem the only solution would be to kill that ***** in her sleep. if u wont do that why dont u just kill yourself, because lets face it if, if u cant stand up for yourself your to worthless to be allowed to live a day longer. and if u wont kill yourself give me your address and ill come kill u myself u whiny *****.
2006-06-29 05:14:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are relationships so hard? It's the hard that makes em great. If they were easy, everybody'd be doing them. Hard is what makes the difference between okay and GREAT!
Oh, and yer boyfriend, although he seems to want to make this very hard, isn't so great.
2006-06-29 05:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when 2 persons love each others for real, they strive to make each others happy even sometimes giving up their own needs, real love is devotion and sacrifice too not only pleasure and fun, just think about it
2006-06-29 05:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by rivers_of_life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to like every person that is in your partner life,but
you have to let him know that.
And,most of all,don't forget,you are more important then anybody else and take care he knows this!
2006-06-29 05:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by faunpas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did just right b/c i wouldnt undertsand why your man will want you to relate with another girl of his , afterall he is the one you are dating not the friend.just leave the situation the way it is ,if he wants you back then go back to him and make him undertsand that you musnt like his ither girlfriend
2006-06-29 05:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by aska06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Dear. You started going out with a jerk.
2006-06-29 05:09:56 · answer #11 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋