I met a guy over this site who lives in a different country to me, we have been chatting for a while, i feel like i know him very well, we have spoken about everything from our lives to more personal stuff. we have dreamt about each other too. im 20 and he is alot older than me. could this work? or are we kidding each other?
i dont want to hurt this guy.
2006-06-28 21:52:31 · 7 answers · asked by JJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this what you were messaging me about?
Have either of you said you 'love' eachother in as many words?
I think its important that you dont say those words, until you actually meet.
Nothing is impossible, relocation is not the end of the world. I relocated for love... not that it worked out, but it has opened a totally new world for me.
Sometimes I wander around lost, but life is for experiences, if you sit back and wonder 'what if' and regret the things you never did, you wont have a feeling of accomplishment when you are old and wise haha.
There are some things I would rather tell you by email, if you dont mind. Message me your email address.
2006-06-29 01:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by kara_nari 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These things seldom work out Honey, and the age difference can be a problem. Why not stay E-pals, that way you are guaranteed to stay friends, anything else is pure fantasy, and will likely lead to heartache and disappointment. And if he is a lot older, why is he interested in someone your age, other than the obvious reasons. Another question, all you know about him is what he tells you, and you could be setting yourself up for a real eye opener.
2006-06-28 21:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should continue emailing each other. You both have been dream about each other which means there is something their that nobody else can give you. Yes i think it will work. What you both need to do is open your hearts & let the feelings run through your body's. Age does not matter now adays but if it bothers you then only you can dicide on what you want. Don't hurt the guy he sounds great.
2006-06-28 22:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living in different countries could be a problem, but the age thingy is never a problem if u really connect at a deeper level :-)
2006-06-30 05:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by DazedAndConfused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its posible to know someone you have never actually seen coz its a metter of heart and when u like someone without seen its mean ur feelings want this person
2006-06-28 22:02:14 · answer #5 · answered by arajaajmali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, keep your fingers crossed then if you really want this to work for the both of you and hope that both of you are true to eachother and yourselves.
Cheers!
2006-06-28 21:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by aaryan110001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would work...im in that situation also...
2006-06-28 21:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋