What is the cure for a broken heart?

Question

And why does it feel the way it does when you are hurting and crying intensely? The lump in your throat and the shortage of breath and the seemingly piercing pain through your "heart". Is it really through your heart or just somewhere in your chest? But most of all, what can cure that NOW, so please dont tell me TIME coz I dont have it... Im hurting now, not tomorrow...

Answer 1

listen..i went through the same thing. dont believe me? read my questions.the only thing you can do is try to take everyday at a time.1)try getting into work. work a lot.go out with friends,date others. you can never forget him. but you can forgive him.forgive him and move on. crying is good. it realeses you. sometimes you will feel a wave of eagerness in you to hear his voice or to see him. bite your teeth and fight the temptation. you will have many temptations and they will come to you suddenly .when you least expect it you will feel the urge to call him. stay strong during the urges and it will pass. slowly it will pass. hold on. thake a new hobby or go walking.yahoo answers has helped me a lot. i help people and i forget him.dont worry. remember...this too shall pass.

Answer 2

I know you said don't mention time, but I'm sorry time heals all wounds, but don't be afraid of how you feel, if you need to cry...cry, letting out your emotions is OK, what you need to do is to go out with friends even if you don't feel like it because what this does is gives you the chance to see different people (i don't mean pick someone else up to replace the person who's broken your heart), but sometimes when you see other people you don't focus so much on the person who caused the broken heart, especially if someone else takes an intrest it just shows that there are other people out there who are just as nice as the person you was with, or even nicer, don't dwell in this place too long, theres a big world out there filled with lots of interesting people and interesting things to do , don't make this one person be the center of your life. The hurt will eventually fade, and you can move on.

Good luck

Answer 3

Get up, dust yourself off and go out and have some fun.
As long as your going to sit there feeling sorry for yourself then ou wil be waiting for tomorows. Don't dwell on it and go have some fun. You will be surprised at how fast you will get over it.
I talk from experience, having suffered that fate a few times in my life also. So take my advise as coming from experience.

What do you like to do? Don't know...? Then it's time to ask yourself.

Grab a chat room, get in the groove, go out to a nightclub (if you are old enough).

And above all believe in this...

THE ONLY PERSON WHO CAN HOLD YOU DOWN IS YOURSELF!

Answer 4

You don't say why your heart is broken? Whatever has happened, the sun will still rise tomorrow.
Be positive, look at your tears as your bodies way of healing and each piercing pain in your heart is a reminder that you are alive.
I am not a religious person but I believe God only gives us what he knows we can bear.
Take care of yourself xx

Answer 5

I agree with Pandak. You are ill, or hurting in a very deep and profound way. I do believe, and have experienced (more than once) that time does heal. Each love, and each hurt that goes wrong takes a different healing course. But, hang in there--everyone, or nearly everyone, experiences this hurt. Be good to yourself, take care of yourself, nurture and love yourself. When you are whole and healthy you will attract a whole and healthy mate.

Answer 6

I'm so sorry i feel your pain...... but unfortunately it is time, and i know that not what you wanted to hear. I'm not one to lie to someone who's in so much pain.... I have been in your situation and there is not much to do. Call all the girls over and laugh rent funny and i mean funny movie.... movies like George Mancia, George Lopez..... something to take your mind away from the pain that your heart is feeling. Spent time with you Nephews or Nieces or your children if you have any..Laughter and Prayer is the best medicine...... My Heart gos out to you i wish i were there to be your friend.....

Answer 7

I feel for you matrix - i know what its like to have a broken heart and to be in incredible pain constantly. I guess, spending time with friends, going out, meeting new people helped me, but honestly, i know you dont want to hear it, but time was the only thing that really helped - that and meeting someone new. Good luck sweetie, hope it all works out for you

Answer 8

Cry ur heart honey...u need to vent those feelings out.a kind of catharsis.U could find a confidante to unload ur gloom.wrks better to share those lumpy feelings.When u have put in all ur 100% in to ur relation and very shure that it will work perfect,and u find that all that u belived to be true is jus a big farce u pain a lot and cry bitterly.But once u r done with that i think ur head clers and u realise that he was never meant to be yours and good that he is no more with u.be positive and look foward in life.noone is worth ur tears and effort.jus luv urself.take care

Answer 9

Sleep. Your pain and hurt are real. You are "sick" in a sense. A broken heart is a broken heart. It needs mending. Sleep. Sleep. Lots of chocolate. Exercise. It could take years in some cases. You'll know when you are cured.

Answer 10

I understand how u r going thru now cos I been through tat myself not once but several... time. And it was the same person... honestly i'm learning to love myself more and to tell myself I'm responsible for my own happiness not others. So please take few deep breath... get on yr feet and tell yrself how blessed u r, love yrself and give the respect that u always have. SMILE :-)