2006-06-28 20:50:43 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how old are you. Girls usually start to develop their special girly body in the age of 14, but it takes about 6 years to become a girl completely. That means before 19 or 20 or so a girl is not enough matured physically. And if any girl have sex before she is 19 or 20 then she will have her those places injured and when she will be 24 or so she will start to feel that she can't enjoy it anymore and lose the most senses in her those places. I just told you this to help you to take decision if you are really ready. Don't do anything for which you might have to suffer for your whole life.
2006-06-28 20:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I hope you are at least 17, 18, or older would be best. If you are 16 or younger, girl your not old enough, nor ready. Sex is something you want to do with the right person. You don't just want to do it cause you think you are ready. I have a friend whoms granddaughter got pregnant at age 12, she now just turned 15 and is pregnant with her 2nd child. She is not a good mother. Remember also, there is alot of STDs out there these days. How do you know your boyfriend wont have sex with you and leave you. How long have you been dating him. Have you considered a birth control? Have you asked him "what if i get pregnant?, Has he slept with alot of people? If I could turn back time, I would have waited until I was much older to have sex, I lost my v when I was 16, thought I was in love....The guy ended up being a real Jerk. Save yourself for a real man that loves you and wants to marry you. You don't want to regret this one.
2006-06-28 20:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Dream on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading some of the question that you have asked I would say wait because you don't seem like your ready.
Here are your recently asked questions:
1) Are there any guys out there that are sexy and want to emal me?
2)from what you see do you think i'm hot?
3) if you had a boyfriend that goes to another school and people tell's you that he's cheating on you what do you
2006-06-28 20:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety,don't let your boyfriend talk you into something your not ready for...If you want to wait and he's still pushing the issue...I would say,you need to either move on or tell your friend no,i'm not ready,when the time is right i will let you know...And always have safe sex...
Clowmy
2006-06-28 20:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ''think'' you're ready? Make sure you know if you are or not, it's not something you can take back. [Unless you're one of those crazy born again virgin people that make me laugh and then want to stab myself...]
Figure things out with yourself first, think of consequences, if it will change things, the possibility of STDs or pregnancy, if you're mature enough for it. If it is what you want, be safe about it. Talk to a local planned parenthood or the nurse if you're in school, or your parents if you have that type of relationship with them. Most importantly, talk to you're boyfriend to make sure it's what you both want.
Sex can be an amazing thing between two people in love, but it can rip people apart and destroy lives just as easily.
2006-06-28 20:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by thisfleshavenged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you are ready, make sure you are doing it because you want to and not because you feel pressure to do it. If you decide to have sex, make sure you are aware that you could get pregnant or contract a disease. Be sure to use protection. It is always good to be safe than sorry!! Remember you always have the power to say "no" if you decide to change your mind!
2006-06-28 20:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing until you KNOW you're ready. I don't think you should sleep with someone who's only interested in pressuring you - these things should come naturally, gradually, not because some teenage boy's pumped full of hormones. Wait until you're ready - you will know, there won't be any question.
2006-06-28 20:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answerer.
If you are ready to be dumped you are ready for sex.
It happens a lot.
I don't know why.
2006-06-28 20:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THink carefully first before saying you're ready.
2006-06-28 20:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK AGAIN!!!! And then say "NO"! Because you need to respect yourself and expect him to respect you more. A real relationship should be about trust and respect. If he really cared about YOU he would never of even asked....
2006-06-28 20:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Soonergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋