My mom grew up in poverty.When young,she worked hard 2 earn money so that her brothers and sisters can get proper education.When she married, it was not exactly a happy marriage but she held on for the sake of me & my brother. My father died 10 years back & she had to work again after a gap of 25 years.I became an engineer and my brother a doctor because of her hard work. i had a love marriage 3 years ago,not exactly against her wishes but she was not exactly happy with it either.Now, after a big fight, my wife has walked out of my home.and my wife has flatly refused to try to reconcile.
my mom, in her old age, has to witness all this. She is upset all day. I WANT 2 MAKE HER HAPPY, BRING SOME CHEER IN HER LIFE. HOW DO I DO THAT. PLEASE ADVICE, PLEASE HELP ME.
2006-06-28 20:48:57 · 10 answers · asked by archer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Remind her that she really didn't like her and how wonderful of a mom she is .Say "hey beautiful got a date ? " Then take her to a movie ! When is the last time she went to a movie . I understand she is old .But not so old she doesn't worry about you ! Let her know how much you want her to enjoy life . Take her to places as if she were 25 years younger .Sorry about your marriage , you have that on your mind and mom . Have you had time to just relax ? Your mom may see this as well . When you begin to date again , try to date , come home to mom and talk about the date with her .So she can adjust to you enjoying your life again as well .If she can get around , the zoo ( have wheel chairs available ) If she needs one or becomes tired .Take her to new places (like the casino ) .If you have a yard , ask her what is her favorite flowers and plant them , place a few chairs for both of you .My mom passed away young ( cancer ) And I'd take her to rummages ( she loved buying thing that she didn't need ) .We went up until a month before she passed away .Today I and my family laugh about how much she loved to get a deal and not pay store prices.She had 1200 salt& pepper shakers and about 100 pairs of blue jeans , countless of items ! Had to love her ! Good luck and thank you for the question , It gave me a chance to smile about my mom !
2006-06-28 21:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Fairy Tale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay more attention on her, visit her, talk, walk with her, give presents, say you love her. U two can make a travel. Dont forget the flowers!!!Good luck!! Your mom knows that u love her, she loves u 2 and this makes her happy!
2006-06-29 04:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by Elito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your mother is happy when you are happy.If you have time ,you could go with her for dinner or lunch, or go to the moo vies.You could and your brother ,make her happy with simply things. The most important is to love her
2006-06-29 04:01:54 · answer #3 · answered by d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a hug everyday. Hugs make anyone feel good inside. Moms deserve the most hugs.
2006-06-29 03:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by dewdropinn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Ask her how she feels. If she has concerns and worries, try to solve them for her. Make sure you are both on the same page. Explain to her your side as well so that she knows what you are feeling, too. Be open. :)
2006-06-29 03:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for a holiday, just you, your brother and your mom.
2006-06-29 03:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her what would make her happy?
2006-06-29 03:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by Lex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do wat ever she told n make sure is perfect.
And the most importent is say "I LOVE YOU" to her.
The most powerful word in the mother world.
2006-06-29 03:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-29 03:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋