Open questions get people talking and that's what you want in order to get a good handle on that person's personality. There is nothing worse when meeting someone for the first time then that awkward silence after greeting each other. Kick the silence into orbit. Here's a few conversation starters:
What did you do last weekend?
What do you do for fun?
What are you most passionate about?
Are you more of a city or mountain person?
What kind of movies do you like?
What kind of music do you like?
Where are you from originally?
What do you do for a living (company names should not be divulged).
What have you learned from your past relationships?
What are the most important things you're looking for in a person?
What do you consider your best attributes?
If you could be granted 3 wishes, what would they be?
Which famous people would you invite to your perfect dinner party. And why?
If you had to be someone else, who would you be and why?
What's your favourite wine?
What would be your ideal holiday destination - you can go and do whatever you want?
What's the most reckless thing you've ever done?
What's your most memorable moment?
What song best sums you up and why?
If you won the lottery how would you spend it?
What three things would you take with you to a desert island?
What time in history would you have liked to be born in and why?
If you were to star in a movie, what kind of film would it be and who would be your co-star?
2006-06-28 20:52:14
·
answer #1
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
If you want to start a conversation with a girl you've never met, stay away from the dirty talk. Good conversation material is stuff like movies, music, and jobs. But avoid being overly negative. A little bit once in a while is okay, because you're human, but other than that you're just b1tching about stuff, yanno? good luck!
2006-06-29 03:54:10
·
answer #2
·
answered by High On Life 5
·
0⤊
0⤋
The conversation has to revolve around something relevant to the situation you are currently in. For example, if you are at a bar, you could talk about how crowded it is in the bar, or talk about how hot it is. Hopefully in her answer she will give you some kind of clue or keyword where to direct the conversation.
For example, if she says, "Yeah, its frigging hot in here", you could say, "Yeah, I hate overheated bars too, summer is so warm in this town, what do you do to stay cool?". etc.
The idea is to talk about open ended subjects that can let your conversation develop and evolve so you constantly have something to talk about and you learn more about the person you are talking to.
Some things to avoid are topics or questions that could result in a one word answer. "yes" and "no" doesn't lead to good conversation. If someone is responding to your statements with one word answers they may not want to be in a conversation with you. However, if they volunteer new information don't be afraid to follow up on it - they just might be interested in talking to you more.
Best of luck.
2006-06-29 03:58:28
·
answer #3
·
answered by Homestar 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
If you really want to start a conversation with a girl the best conversation is themselves. You cant go wrong with that one. All girls like to talk about themselves. Trust me.
2006-06-29 03:52:48
·
answer #4
·
answered by Jacqueline 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
touch, whisper and crack jokes mostly girls cant tell u what they dont like but if u initiate dirvese social isseus you will find out what she likes or not ask her things color of your niples, panties, and tell her u last had sex 3 years ago bcos your last gf cheated or hurt u she will be happy to modify u to plaesure world, the best way of getting girls attention is to lie, remeber first 3 weeks u lie like mathafaker bank robber, dont listen to people who say honest, honest, honest they faaken lie to get girls & want u to be honest so your girlfriend can judge u cheap, remember lov isto still somebody"s heart so be a bank rober for her heart & stop pre-schooling most of guys tell the truth after being caght or after 3 months u r a mathafaken rookie to girls pigesss idont have time 4 preschooling a chempanze beared man
2006-06-29 04:11:48
·
answer #5
·
answered by jonas m 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
Honesty
2006-06-29 03:50:13
·
answer #6
·
answered by wvvyvvw 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
Honest, funny and intersting. No lying because you can slip up and that's not cool ("oh i did that twice...I have never tried that in my life as it good?"..."Uh oh...."...*boy runs away in fear of life*). No cheesy jokes unless they work because if you think you're hilarious the girl won't. TRUST ME on that one, lots of funny guys out there a lot of them think they're funny. They're single.
And be intersting because if its dull the girls just going to want to be somewhere else ("I like cats" Yawn.....).
Good Luck! Again!
2006-06-29 12:54:23
·
answer #7
·
answered by quirky_ramone 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
Girls love to be talked to like morons... you know, call 'em sweetie, and honey-pie and stupid stuff like that.... Always use small words - one or two syllables at the most, so they can understand you better... Lord knows you don't want them to have to use that pretty little head for anything like thinking....
2006-06-29 03:52:07
·
answer #8
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
Go with Astrology... It"s a winner......
I bet you're a pisces..........
You have to read a few basics first, But it"s a lifetime conversation approach, plus they will always tell you their actual sign.... and often the exact date.......
Isn't this quite an intro to meet someone.........lol........
2006-06-29 04:01:13
·
answer #9
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
well girls like to be asked stuff like
how are you?
whats your favorite thing to do?
whats your favorite movie?
how was your weekend?
whats your favortie tv show?
do you like.......make something up like cones or cups for ice cream?
stuff like that really makes girls think that you care about how we feel and that you arent a self centered jerk!!!o and if we say that we like some kind of candy then if you get it for us then we feel like you know something about us and that you care and listen when we are talking to you!!and dont be surpised if she askes you the same question right back because we dont want to seem like we dont care about you either!!!well i hope that everything works out for you and the girl!!!best of luck!!!:D
2006-07-03 12:51:28
·
answer #10
·
answered by Jackie 4
·
0⤊
0⤋