Is there something wrong with u when u dont trust n e one .... i have a very hard time trusting n e one including my husband...i guess i have been screwed over so many times before that i dont have trust in n e one .... whats up with that ,.????
2006-06-28 19:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by princess_of_saxton519 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I dont trust many people either so you are not alone. It's just that when people hurt us we have trouble trusting others. Its called human nature. I have alot of trouble trusting men, thats why I have not been in a relationship so far. So yeah you are not alone.
2006-06-28 21:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Elmo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not get yourself into some counseling?
Maybe at your local Mental Health Clinic or Church?
Trust is a big issue in marriage. Talking about these things really does help.
Letting go of the past is one way to build trust. Let the past just be that IN THE PAST, You can't change it. It's done and over with, time to move on!
LOOK toward the FUTURE. Change things for the better. THINK positive thoughts!
2006-06-28 19:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get hurt so many times you don't want to trust anymore because you are afraid of being hurt again. This can cause problems in your marriage and you should try getting help. Maybe you would feel better if you talked with a counseler or a close friend. Trust is something we all should be able to have. I wish you luck in finding yours.
2006-06-28 19:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by shelgirl912003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you do have trust and want to trust.otherwise you would not bother to ask us here. Maybe you keep your guard up because of what you have been through in life and there is nothing wrong with this. A sign of maturity perhaps?But don't let it ruin your chances to be happy or to find happiness in life. You can be guarded yet find happiness and still live life to the fullest.
2006-06-28 20:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by zarandipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing's wrong with you when you don't trust anyone. you just have to try. and i know trying is hard, but you don't become a new you right the next day. :) smile and be happy.
2006-06-28 19:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, see a Psychologist and ask them the same question. But me myself feel the same, because of some bad experiences with others in life.
2006-06-28 20:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by mississippi_starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must of gotten hurt really bad in the past.Sounds a bit like me.
2006-06-28 19:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by NativeCock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're human.
2006-06-28 19:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋