ok well i met this one guy in a chat room and he is 8 years older then me and i'm not even in college. he knows my real age and every thing and before i lied and said i was older not my much but still and he just kept saying how beautiful i was and every thing. Hey saw my pic b/c I talked to him on Yahoo and I had my pic on the display thing He kept saying that he just wanted to see me and that he probably doesn't have a chance with anyone like me. I know that that is his real age b/c he had a webcam. And i would just look at it if i said something that would really touch him to see how he reacted and he would just lay his head back like OMG i can't believe this is happing to me (in a good way) I really think he cares about me but i just don't want to do the wrong thing! Please HELP Love ya he isn't a perv he asked me if i was a virgin and i said yes and he said ok well will you save it for me. We have been talking A LOT he wants me to call him and i have his number but idk if i want to call him. He is in the military also
2006-06-28 19:33:33 · 13 answers · asked by gingerg50 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This one sounds like a real winner. It doesn't sound like the smartest idea to call him. You never know, he could be talking to other girls as well telling them the same things as he's telling you. Enjoy the attention, talk online maybe, but don't think of this as love or a relationship. It could be illegal and not safe for you to pursue this in a physical means. Don't get hung up on this guy.
2006-06-28 19:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by sTRIKER 81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is eight years older than you and I dont really know your age before I answer this question, but call to see where his head is besides your vagina. Do not I repeat do not meet with him in a private place only out in the public like the mall. He also probably meet young ladies on the net all the time then spend money on them to have them smiling and happy so he can take advantage of them. If this dont help then put it in GOD'S hand.
2006-06-29 02:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by pepperspray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunnie. maybe im wrong, and maybe im right.. but dont trust him. there are way to many freaky people out there to be trusting someone that you have NEVER mett. he's 8 years older than you.. thats weird. and im guessing youre young. so save your virginity for someone that you KNOW, not someone you mett online. i know age is nothing but a number, and if this guy was 8 years younger.. i dont think this would have been a problemm if he was ure age. but it is. so stay away. im not sure if im making sense. but i dont care. stay away. if he cares about you.. he would understand that you doo need to stay away from him, and he would understand your descision.. but the fact that he asked you to save himself for you.. thats creepy, and selfish, and probably just some weird trick to get you to let him have sex wiht you. if he gets angry when you say ure gunna stay away.. he didnt care about you as much as he said. i know i probably sound like the worlds biggest idiot, or something.. but just stay away.. ugh. i cant stress this enough. hes probably tricking you hunn. stay away.
2006-06-29 02:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away things like this don't last long I can honestly say he wants you for ur sex and he WILL leave it never works belive me it may work for awhile but in the end ask ur self can you see yourself marrying this guy if you doubt yourself or hesistate don't do it ask ur self is this who u could bring to family and friends and still have them support you wel hope this helps
2006-06-29 02:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by thegreat_neo3000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop chating with him. If you are under age. You need to stop right away. He may be very dangerous. No matter what he says. By no means should you call him. It is very dangerous. Be very careful. No contact with this person. Wake up !!!!!!
2006-06-29 02:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be lying. but he could be telling the truth. Im skeptical in the fact that he is asking your to save yourself for him. This is selfish of him to say that. Its a glimpse of that he is in this for himself and is using you. Its a guys dream to want a virgin. Tell him you will save it for marriage day. If he persists..he is a fraud
2006-06-29 02:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by silverironrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by your response I can carefully guess that you are abt 14-16...and you are very young to understand what guys really want ....becareful....don't fall for him...you don't know who he is...most serial killers were very nice looking nice people till....
so becareful...you ar young....I know you want someone special in your life but don't rush...you have a beautiful life around you....keep yourself busy in school activities...u'll find that some special soon...I can't stop u from making your decisions...don't call him and block him
2006-06-29 02:43:22 · answer #7 · answered by wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is obviously sweet talking you, you'll probably end up getting raped! just cause he's in the militaty doesn't mean hes a good man! plus he might not even be in the military!!! Stick to your own age!!! (give me ten points please)
2006-06-29 02:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very careful with someone off the net. dont give out anything really personal. get to know him over a long period of time.
2006-06-29 02:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he is 8 years is a bad sign. Do not meet up with him for your own safety!!!!!!!!!! He sounds like a classic sexual molester.
2006-06-29 02:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sobelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋