choose: love or lust?

When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!

2006-06-29 01:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋

exactly.. what is love?? and what is lust?? i think things have gotten confusing. any person in their right mind would say love... but lust gets in the way, now doesnt it? love at firstt sight?? doesnt exist, isnt that just lust??. but we say its love.. why? because we have got the lines crossed. love is more than just physical attraction, or sexual attraction, and alotta people dont know that. so before someone can answer your question, i guess the first thing to ask would be... do you know the difference between love and lust? and if you do.. which one do you choose? i would have to say love. because lust is just a physical attraction, and love... well love is more than just that.. love is physical, emotional, mental, and .. iunoo... spiritual. so why just have lust.. when you can have it all??

2006-06-28 19:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Love is knowing your feelings and the persons you love,lust is just chasing after their flesh to satisfy your needs and maybe you feel it's the only way to love or be loved.
Today I choose love,although I have lusted,I didn't know.
Lust is a short term fix for something you think is in your heart and maybe even feel it there.
I choose love because you know and feel in your heart and the persons heart you love,you want to do more than just lust after your needs in any manner.
lust for the flesh,LOVE for and from the heart.

2006-06-28 19:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by writerfour 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

ah, LUST. because love plants its roots in your heart and tears it out when the love dies. You can lust 100 times a year and keep your heart in good shape.

2006-06-28 19:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by longbeach2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

love is long lasting, lust is short bursts

Example: love = manual transmission (takes a while to get use to driving up to 4/5 gears in heavy turns on mountains [think INITAL D] love goes up n down.. not always happy, but enjoyable)
sex = nitrous gas in bottles release for short term (trigger it and BOOM u go.

xD

2006-06-28 19:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

i'd opt for Love because i visit nonetheless love human beings and love human beings yet I dont somewhat imagine that what love is all about besides you nonetheless have kissing yet uhhmm... in case you want to have youthful ones u can undertake yet when u %. lust u cant have sex or fall in love so whats the point of loving!!!

2016-10-13 22:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

I choose love its unconditonal ..lust fades away in time ..

2006-06-28 19:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

true love is lust. when you truely love someone your desire to be with them, mind, body and soul is lust

2006-06-28 19:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by dawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋

i want love. it lasts longer than lust. plus, sex should only be a bonus if you're in love. it's a better sensation for me.

2006-06-28 19:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by anak sendu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

love...it makes the world go round...lust doesnttt!!!

2006-06-29 00:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

choose: love or lust?

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