Is there really a reason?

Question

Is there a reason for women to try and resolve things that can NEVER be resloved? I am and have been dating a man that has two children by a previous relationship. The baby's mother is and has been trying to reslove things (that have nothing to do with the children) that happened in the past and they will never be the same. The children have everything they need from both parents, and are perfectly happy. The mother has no life, and isnt happy with hers so she wants to ruin ours. The father has tried the relationship thing with her three times, twice for them and once for the kids...and IT NEVER WORKS! Can someone explain why and tell me some advice to do! Im not sure with all the BABY MAMA DRAMA!

Answer 1

Unfortunately she is jealous of the relationship that you have with her children's father. He will always have to deal with her because of the children, but he does need to sit her down and tell her that any relationship can only be platonic because any other relationship will never work.

Answer 2

You say that you dont want to deal with the baby mama drama but it seems to me that you are sticking around to deal with it. When you date someone with children then you are going to have some baggage in your realationship. She seems to be jealous of the realationship that you have with her ex and is probably intrested in breaking you two up.

Answer 3

unfortunately tha'ts how it wil always be i also have a baby daddy and it was a one night stand but i'll do anything to have him in my life.But good luck with everything

Answer 4

look down deep into ur heart and consider thngs from a third person pt of view.....nbdy can advice u abt anythng coz its ur life and they dont hav the details or hav eperienced wat u hav............thnk abt ur relationship.........u may consider if its worth the truble or not.............
best of luck