Just because you think they're 'hot'? I understand attraction and all that. But what if this person treated you wrong or only as a booty call?Is a guy or gal being a total knockout your single criteria for staying with them?I ask because I have a friend who seems to have this standard.
2006-06-28 18:43:06 · 8 answers · asked by maximus-seneca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(oh btw,she claims she 'loves' this guy.He never calls her,they're never together.She calls him on weekends to 'hook up'.And now she's...pregnant)
2006-06-28 19:00:12 · update #1
No, I wouldn't. I don't think that being hot could be the only reason that I would be with a girl. If she doesn't love me for who I truly am, and if she doesn't love me and makes me love her then it doesn't really matter how hot she is. There are a lot actresses and model who are hot, but I would never say that I was every attracted to them because I am no way relate to them or neither they do, so there's no attraction.
2006-06-28 18:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no I wouldn't stay with them. First of all just being a booty call for the guy there will never be any respect in the relationship. If a relationship happens. Second of all, there is more important things in a relationship besides attraction such as are the two compatible (do they compliment each other), do they support each others goals, RESPECT each other, and care about each other. Usually a booty call means drama. Either there is a girl that he is cheating on or he is using a few other girls for booty calls. It just depends on what flavor he wants that night. Your friend seems to have low self esteem and little respect for herself if she lets the guy treat her badly or calls her for a night guiltless sex.
2006-06-29 01:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by deltazeta_mary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being hot is reason to hook up with someone, it's not a reason to be with them, especially if they treat you like a booty call. if you're just a booty call then you are not really with the person.
tell your friend to ditch the guy and get her self respect back.
2006-06-29 01:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER !!!
She must be out of her mind ...
IF it is only physical attraction that ur looking for then it means somethin else and ur sure missing something, maybe a thing called LOVE !!!
2006-06-29 01:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by lonestar (kay) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to this question. Come on, that's fine for fooling around if that's what you want to do. But if you are looking for a life-long partner.... It's commen sence.
2006-06-29 01:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by kntrygrl38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no! Me staying with someone would involve him treating me with respect and being able to carry on a decent conversation with that person...the attraction would have to go beyond the physical aspect...
2006-06-29 01:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not good for your friend to see this person. this person does not care about your friend. it's just sex and that's is it. your friend deserve to be with someone that loves, respect her/him. tell your friend that it's not worth it to be treated that way.
2006-06-29 01:49:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes u just can't stop urself, u know? it's part of being human...just go with the flow...
2006-06-29 01:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by pOp taRts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋