Who?if u r come and answer please!!
2006-06-28 18:38:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is impossible unless the guy is blind or if the relationship starts 'long distance' over the phone or the net...
Anyways, I don't qualify since while the inside is most important I have to have someone that isn't physical repugnant...
2006-06-28 18:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by Nitrox Frogy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do. What's on the inside matters most and I'll tell ya why:
What's on the inside is what keeps marriages together. And I'm talking 42+ years! Outward beauty is a good thing, but it's not going to learn what foods you like and cook them for you. Physical beauty is not going to make a person be a good parent. It's not going to make them get along w/ your family. It's not going to make you laugh. It's not going to be an ear when you have something important to say. Good looks are not going to fall in love with you even though you didn't have a job or car when you first met. A pretty face ain't gonna pretend to like your favorite sport even though she'd really, really rather watch Lifetime. A cute face isn't gonna buy you a Father's Day gift, even though you were a big enough jerk to forget Mother's Day. All that stuff...that's on the inside.
2006-06-29 01:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by mcclean5552 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I do like girls for what she is inside not outside. Because I have made friend with girls even without seeing them but after talking to them I thought she is nice inside and so I thought that if I like her in that way, it doesn't really matter how she might look like. Some of them turned out to be beautiful and some of them didn't and I really never cared. Even when the question is about my girl friends I'd say that I admit that apprearance is a point in this but if I wouldn't like a girl inside or for who she really is, if she can't impress me by her heart, no matter how beautiful she is I wouldn't be interested in her. Because outside attraction doesn't last long, but if someone can attract me by truly who she is then that attraction would last for ever.
Now tell me about you, what attracts you most of a guy? You can find my contact information in the address below, that's my personal page.
2006-06-29 01:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The outside always attracts a guy first. However, if the relationship is to last then you must also love the girl on the inside too.
I wonder if that is the same for women liking guys?
2006-06-29 01:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like anyone for their inside, as long as it is a good one. I've met some of the ugliest beastliest looking women that were a pleasure to work with with their personalities. But that doesn't mean I want to sleep with them.
And wanting to sleep or marry someone that is physically attractive is human nature, for both sexes.
Would you rather have a plump red tomato, or a bruised up withering faded red one with yellow spots?
I know it sounds cold, but if your spouse gets that way after 40 years you accept it, but no one really wants to marry it because of what it may look like in 40 years.
Unless of course they are loaded full of money, and effervescent and vivacious. That's another human trait.
2006-06-29 01:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by careercollegestudent69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I married my wife and have been with her for over 10 years.She is no beauty queen but I still love her.Before we actually started going out,I would hear her sing at church.She was a regular at singing in church and had a beautiful voice.She was in her teenage years at that time and became friends with my sister.I started talking to her one night and really got to know her and it started from there.Several of my friends tried to tell me that I could do alot better on my choice of girls but I ignored them,they did not even know her and was judging her by looks.To this day I am happily married with 4 children.I would say looks do not make a person.It is whats inside and how the person expresses what is inside that you should see.
2006-06-29 01:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know I tried that once, and only once. i met this girl on the internet (great girl, fun, rich, a freak-in-the-sheets) and we got along great. Met her, and there was no attraction for me. Talked to my friends at work and got the usual answers.. it's what inside that counts, looks fade, yadayadayada.. so I tried it. In the end, I guess I'm just too shallow or sumtin.. cuz I had to break it off.
2006-06-29 01:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Guys are looking on the outside first. Then if they like what's on the inside . Then maybe they'll stick with them. It never works the other way around . Ha Ha Ha !!!!
2006-06-29 01:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Cesar T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not Gonna Happen.
You are asking for a guy to deny his "maleness"
No guy romantically likes a girl for her personality only.
Males are not built that way.
Sure you will get a few lonely babies on here telling you that thats how they are, but that is only because they have no game and are desperate.
Seriously
These are the facts.
2006-06-29 01:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are out there though we are a rare breed... I have learned the hard way a pretty face isnt always a good face....its whats inside that counts!
2006-06-29 01:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by DeeK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋