2006-06-28 18:16:05 · 13 answers · asked by Bre 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
july 9 will be 3 months.
2006-06-29 16:51:32 · update #1
you'll know no 1 can tell u when
2006-06-28 18:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wtf? Don't sleep with him as soon as possible...jackass. It's when you both feel comfortable. Me, myself, have set a time minimum. I'm not religous so I don't feel I have to wait until marriage. Instead I try to have spent at least six months with my boyfriend. This guarentees me that we both feel we have a chance at a future. For you the time might be different, 3 months, 3 years, whatev.
Just remember: sex changes everything. Sometimes for the better, sometimes not. Each situation is different. Your set length of time will be different with person and their partner. One person can have a different set time for different people. Mostly its whenever you feel comfortable. If you were to strip naked in front of your boyfriend right now, would you be bashful? Once you feel comfortable and ready turn to him and see if he is. Usually you can tell by the language they use. He will be dropping hints (or maybe being more direct) when he is ready and you should do the same. Sooner or later you will both be ready. The important thing to do is wait until both of you are ready. If one of you is pushing the other then it is not fair to either of you.
And yes, it is a VERY good idea for the both of you to be checked for STD's and to use protection. If you are worried about your parents knowing you can turn to a planned parenthood, they offer STD checks, pregnancy tests and even condoms (but don't use those condoms, I haven't personally but I hear they have a tendacy to break) all really cheap, I think free, but cheap for sure.
2006-06-29 01:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime.
If I were a girl I would not have gotten into a hurry - because the fun actually gets over in a hurry and most times leaves a bad taste in the mounth unless the decision is taken wisely.
No hurry baby !!
2006-06-29 01:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by dont try 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is you need to go get tested for HIV and AIDS and all of those sexually transmited diseases then you need to get birthcontrol and a bunch a condoms and then maybe... Personally I think you should wait for marriage I am still a virgen thats saying a lot considering where I am from
2006-06-29 01:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a suggestion. I really want you all to wait for marriage. If you think you can't wait, you guys should first discuss it with eachother and see if you're ready. Discuss both of your sexual histories and get a check up.
2006-06-29 01:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by Holla@MeBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only after you are 100% certian that your boyfriend is willing to spend the rest of his life making you (and if you choose to have them, your children) emotionally, financially, and spriritually a better person. In short, only after marriage.
2006-06-29 01:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by settlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did on my first date next date he ask me to move in now we married last friday after 5 years together
2006-06-29 01:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by emmaray2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as soon as possible..all guys in the world want to be laid as fast as possible,and they have much greater sexual drive compared to females
2006-06-29 01:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by kenth_35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i think the right time is when he is become my husband.
2006-06-29 01:56:53 · answer #9 · answered by blueviolet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he's got a raging [adult content] that needs your attention.
2006-06-29 01:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by slick_pavement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋