The guy I'm in love with happens to hate me. What do I do?

Question

Ex-boyfriend and total jerk and dangerous heartbreaker, but I still love him. How do I get him back? Or how do I forget him?

Answer 1

I'm being 100% honest here. Your statement reminds me of those husbands/wives that are in abusive relationships. The person being abused never leaves the situation. It is beyond me, but I can't understand why they don't just _permanently_ leave the situation. Perhaps it is all too complex for me to understand/feel, but I highly recommend you leave his life forever and sever all ties completely. You need to find someone that will respect you entirely for who you are.

Answer 2

It's time for you to weight out the pros and cons with this guy. If the good out weigh the bad then go get him back but if the bad out weigh the good ( which it sounds that way) MOVE ON!!!!! Take some you time and figure out what you really wants because you deserve the best. Then once you do that make a promise to yourself that you will never settle for anything less than the best for you again. Then make yourself emotionally available again. After that it's time to enjoy yourself and wait on Mr. right to sweep you off of your feet!!

Answer 3

Find someone who can let you do fun things that after a while you won't even remember his name. Just let go and have fun with some hot, fun dude and he'll be a thing of the past. If you still think there is a chance for you in his life then you can ask him to to be just a fren and then make your way from there. It has worked for my friend cuz he can't hate you that much.

Answer 4

i assume you have been together for a while since you use sucha a strong word as hate. there is no use in getting back at him because its just gonna become a vicious cycle that will go back and forth until it takes its toll on one of you. probably you because it seems you are the one who is more negatively affected by the breakup as you mentioned you still love him. anywho you just have to move on with life. there are plenty of fish in the sea. and that is precisely how you can forget about him. by getting someone else on your mind (plus it might make him jealous too)

Answer 5

You don't need this guy. And you don't love him, you just think you do. I think you're jealous of the power he has over you and you secretly enjoy the hurt he gives you when he cheats. You'd like to have that power over him. He doesn't hate you. He just has other stuff to think about. You should get some other stuff to do as well. Get busy. Stop banging your head on the wall and live your life. And don't hate. It just comes back on you.

Answer 6

Forget him. Do what you love to do, do something nice for yourself (a new hairdo may or a little trip away or something), sign up for a course, just do stuff that makes you happy. Happy fills empty. And, you might just find someone way better.

Answer 7

Try to get over him if he's a jerk and a heart breaker then he's not worth your time and effort. Try talking it out with someone or getting together with other people to get over him. But what ever you do don't go back. He's not worth it.

Answer 8

If you want to get him back, you first need to forget about him. Second, you need to have fun while looking hot. Then he will see that he is missing out on something great!

Answer 9

wow u definately dont wanna be with this guy. i've been down the same road... nothing is gonna make u forget about him. just time. so try to keep occupied and keep ur mind busy and not thinking about him. spending a lot of time with ur friends help : )

Answer 10

a jerk and heartbreaker its a good thing he hates you because no girl deserves one of those types.