Dose he like someone else? Please give your advice!!!!!!!?

Question

I live with my boyfriend and just recently he got a full time job working packing oranges in this factory, he works from 6.45am to 4.00pm.
He sms me when he gets to work, at lunchtime and when he's about to come home, but I sometimes ring him at lunchtime and everytime he answers he dosen't sound very happy to hear from me, and when someone walks passed he speaks differently to me and dosen't want to say that he loves me, he treats me like a friend more than a girl friend when someone walks passed, why would he be acting like that?
Dose he like someone else?
Please I need everybodys advice.....

I have asked him but he keeps on saying he loves me and just me, I don't belive him.

Answer 1

Sweetheart please feel free to read my questions and answers. I feel your pain...but trusting our mate must come from within and no amount of without can cure it. If he talks to you then he is all good....if he acts indifferently that means he is working, men believe that providing proves love...if he provides he loves. Best wishes

Answer 2

If u don't believe him maybe u have trust issues that u need 2 work thru.. If he's msging u at when he gets there, on his break and be4 he comes home u should be happy that he's thinking about u.. Jus becuz he acts different when u call him while he's at work doesn't mean he's cheating. It could be jus that he's tired and cranky becuz he's there workin his butt off. Cut him some slack!!! TALK 2 him about how u're feeling, if its bothering u that bad. Now if he's acting differently towards u all the time regardless if he's not at work then u may have a problem but if he's his old self once he's home u prolly have nothing 2 worry about! GOOD LUCK tho.

Answer 3

My advice would be to give him space at work...sometimes people just don't want to be bothered...and if it is a new job he may not want people to think that it is such a personal call...Just make sure that when he does come home that you shower him with praise for the work that he does and make him feel like a man...(and if you are really worried about it move out and see what happens...even though you may think you have a commitment with him you really don't without the wedding vows so move it a long)

Answer 4

How old is your boyfriend? Is he big on the whole "macho" bullshit? Sometimes men are embarrassed to say I LOVE YOU in front of other people, where as us women could say it in front of the whole world. He also wakes up early to go to work, so he might not enjoy his time at work. Lay off calling him so much and he might be happier to hear from you when he does. Maybe like one phone call a day, and then just talk to him when he gets home. More to chat about, and you'll enjoy each others company.

Answer 5

this sounds like a classic case of being the new guy at work! When you first start out you dont know your co-workers very well and by you calling that gives them ammo to give him a much harder time.once he gets more comfortable at work he might come around but work isnt the place for a guy to let his guard down and say those precious words.

Answer 6

Well he might be one of those tough around other guys type, trust me its common, im not saying to not see if there is anyone else, but he may just be acting tough around the other guys because in society a guy to "Act" like he loves someone is considered weak.

Trust me you may just be worrying. But that isn't to say the opposite isn't happening, just do a little investigating but don't spy or anything that would make him mad if he isn't.

Answer 7

no dear i guess he like u, but due to the work pressure people tend to forget things and dont forget first time he is in a full time job, this is the time people start thinking abt the future, may he is thinking abt the same. I think u both make a good pair

Answer 8

You have to have trust in your relationship for it to survive. It could be because he is at work he doesn't feel comfortable talking to you with coworkers around. Sometimes bosses don't like personal calls to employees either unless it is an emergency. Talk to him and have a frank conversation about this matter. It could be that you just feel insecure at this time.

Answer 9

Give him a break, a guy doesn't want to be heard saying he love you when other guys around around or walking by him at work. You're way over thinking things. if you love him you should be able to trust him. Quit being so insecure or you might drive him away.

Answer 10

give the guy some space! he is working and that is good. you bugging him even on lunch break is probably setting off his mode. when guys are at work they hate to be bothered. just back off and call him after work after he has time to take a shower, put fresh clothes on, and put his feet up. i'd say two hours after he gets off. by then i am sure he'd be happy to talk about whatever. and try not to bug him every day, try every other day. he is trying to adjust and has stress. no biggie

Answer 11

why are you still with him if you don't believe him? there is obviously a lack of trust on your part, and that is not healthy for the both of you, and your relationship will not be able to survive with out it. trust has to be a mutual thing between you two. if you are having doubts about him loving you, then you need to talk to him about it. if those doubts still continue after the talk, then your best bet is to end the relationship and move on.