2006-06-28 17:56:53 · 18 answers · asked by klay43701 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure variety is the spice of life. My husband and I have different tastes, values, hobbies, and political views and we get along great. We just agree to disagree and never try to force eachother to feel or act like we do.
2006-06-28 18:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by danac210 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think as long as the things you do have in common are strong and practiced a lot, yes, you can make that work. Maybe you can explore new things in order to find more in common that you never knew about.
Just because it's more difficult, doesn't mean it's less valuable and less enjoyable.
Enjoy the challenge and both lovers can embrace anything that comes their way.
It might also be beneficial to every now and again do things that the other likes even if you don't particularly love the hobby/activity. It will mean a lot to them and in return they will be more apt to do something with you that they don't fancy either!
2006-06-29 01:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
story from the little box:-
It's meaningful....
Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student
lying down under a big tree near a big grass area.
Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher,
Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate?
Could you please help me?
Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answered)
Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.
Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???
Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass
there, why don't you walk there but please never walk
backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try
to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.
Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).
A few minutes later...
Student : I'm back.
Teacher : Em, well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand
Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass,
but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up.
But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't
picked up any. Because you told me not to go back, so I didn't go
back.
Teacher : That's what happened in real life.
What is the message of this story?
* Grass - is people around you
* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you
* Grass Field - is time
* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always
compare and hope that there will be a better one. By
doing that, you'll waste your lifetime, cause remember..
"Time Never Goes Back".
It applies the same in finding your ideal life
partner, your suitable career or business, therefore
the morale is LOVE & grab hold of the opportunity
that you have now, don't waste time!
2006-06-29 01:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by idiotguidebook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply put, no!.... It'll only end in a break up of some sort (i.e. divorce). 3 of my friends married girls they have nothing in common with but were women they thought were hot. What more do you need in a female, right? (Guys! When will you learn its not just about the looks?) 2 of them are divorced. The 3rd is finalizing the divorce & she's trying to take him for all he's worth... Money hungry bitches, all of them! Not many women out there you can trust, Gents, remember that!!!
2006-06-29 01:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by Spoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good question but from my experiance imma have to say no .. I mean ive been doing it for 10 years ..I feel so lonely all the time .. i mean im just here .. i used to think he was my other half you know that he completed me becuz he is everything IM NOT .. at first its great but somewhere along the way I lost myself as a person .. i sacrificed alot to keep him happy cuz i committed myself to him and it just seems like the right thing to do ..I think if i had it to do all over again i would definatly choose to commit myself to someone i had more things in common with .. I feel so alone so dead inside .I dont even know why wer still together the only thing we have in common is our child ..she keeps us together im here but not happily ..everything takes work tho and if u wanna make it work happily id like to think u can ..its all on the ppl
2006-06-29 01:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,and that is realy good for you and your partner cuse then you cuold learn more about life and pepole and your relashion ship will not be like kind of boring however you will have some problems that could deal whith your diffrencess.You don't have to think the same as your partner you have to be only you.Be shure about that.
2006-06-29 01:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by La Pitufa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question - depends. How often do you do things together? You don't have to have everything in common but enough to be spending time with each other. If you have nothing in common, then I'd say no.
2006-06-29 01:01:06 · answer #7 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely...you can have a fantastic relationship without smothering each other and while you are at it you can always learn something new by checking out what the other person is into. I don't think that we should smother one another in a relationship in the first place...so if you both have other interests, then you already have that in check.
2006-06-29 01:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how much you're willing to put into the relationship.... you have to make an effort no matter what. I think it'd be more interesting to have little in common than to be clones of one another - ya know?! Ugh, can you imagine?
2006-06-29 01:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by t'kit ez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so. I think you will get irritated with each other and then split up. Is it worth it? If you dont have anything in common how is he your mate?
2006-06-29 01:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋