I am still in love with this married man I lie awake everytime and imagine what it would be like if we came together heis good looking and has nice eyes and everything I feel shy when I see him but I really like him alot I deerpately would lkike to make that fisrt move I owuld liek to touch his face look intp his eyes and kiss him his body evrything its really really hard I do not know what to do every time i see him my face lights up; like magic its such a wonderful feelingI really like him I wish I could be more polite and friend;y with him . I do not kno what to do know.
please guys help me agion I do not know what to do!
2006-06-28 17:47:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your screwed then!!!
2006-06-28 17:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Twinky 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heres what you do: forget him and avoid him. He's married - he's not on the market and you shouldn't try to seduce him into having any type of relationship with you. Respect his marriage and back off. There are plenty of single men out there that you can pine over, don't pick a man that is unavailable and don't even think he will leave his wife for you because statistically married men do not leave their wives for the other woman.
2006-06-28 17:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Katie,have 2 say that not all the time things goes ur way,so are u prepared 4 a negative response from him.My advise to you is not to go in to it,he might be committed to this marriage he might be not and then things start to complicate,so find urself a man and get on with ur life
2006-06-28 20:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by ``nick`` 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my baby girl!!!, being in love with a married man is like preparing for your funeral, floral arrangements and all, my dear despite how you may feel about this man and despite how this man makes your body feel ;) he's not going to leave his wife for you and lets say its a million years later and you know what he does decide to leave her for you what's going to happen when the new "fresh face" comes along and takes your place as you're doing now, I know this post isn't going to persuade you but sweetheart all I'm going to say is protect you and also listen to that little voice inside of your head that's telling you its not right because the fact that you're even asking this question lets me know further that you're having second thoughts about this relationship. I wish you the best in what ever you decide to do. "Life is all about choices whether they be right or wrong."
2006-06-28 17:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Go find your own man... one who is single, and does not have a wife waiting at home
2) Run like the hills.
3) Stop being so self absorbed and think how you'd feel if that was your husband someone was thinking about
4) Stop being a HOME WRECKER.
5) If you do choose to pursue this, you might need to become more familiar with 1800-96-JERRY
(jerryspringer show)
2006-06-28 17:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by MissT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucks to be you.
My only advice in this situation is try to find someone who is available. You don't want to break up the marriage, or pursue someone who is unavailable. And even if you DID get together, and he left his wife (not probable), you would spend the rest of the time in your relationship wondering if he was cheating on you, since he cheated on his first wife to be with you.
So it sucks loving someone you can't have... and feelings are really hard to control (you can't choose who you like and dislike), but try to find someone else who can make you feel like that.
2006-06-28 17:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by writingnerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never wrong to be friend people. however for your case it's a married man..And your feelings for him are more than just mere infatuations.Its not wrong to fantasise him whatsoever .Please have in mind he belongs to his beloved wife.And probably he may even has a family(child0ren).
You may be friendly to him but but bear in mind of the limitations and boundaries you musnt cross.
Try to control your feelings.There are many other fishes in the open sea.
You wouldnt wanna be caught up in a love triangle one day ,would you? By then things won't be pretty you know.And it is not good to come in between two people.
2006-06-28 17:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every time you see him think about the wife he has at home.
think about how he could never really be yours because he belongs to someone else.
if you cant control your urges then you need to do everything in your power to remove him from your life.
you have no right to wiggle in between him and his wife
how would you feel if it were your husband that was being lusted after in this way?
2006-06-28 17:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by Wanna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STEP AWAY FROM THE MARRIED MAN..seriously nothing good can come of this..ENJOY the feelings of infatuation or your crush...fantasize all you want but express your feelings of LUST with some one else..I know what its like exactly...They are the first thing you think of when you wake up and the last thing you think of before you go to sleep..
If you want to know how I dealt with it write to me.
2006-06-28 17:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Stan B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes married and remember that and just because his face lights up when he sees u im sorry it doesnt mean he likes you he could be just being polite...please move on more than likely he will be faithful to his wife and u will get hurt
2006-06-28 17:50:15 · answer #10 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At best you'll become a 'friend with benefits' ... at worst you'll destroy his marriage (and not get him)... and most likely, if he is smart, he will be flattered and tell you to find someone single and your own age...
Move on and find an eligible single guy...
2006-06-28 18:38:07 · answer #11 · answered by Nitrox Frogy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋