2 days before my birthday my boyfriend broke up with me
[7 mounth relationship] because he met this other girl then the day of my birthday while im on a date at the movies, decides 2 get on his knees and beg for me back because the other girl already had a boyfriend. I told him to give me time to think about it and i dont know if i should give him another chance!
2006-06-28 17:43:53 · 35 answers · asked by bjsgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't be a fool twice
2006-06-28 17:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not give him another chance. Would you have heard from him if the other girl didn't have a boyfriend? What kind of a guy dumps you two days before your Birthday, anyway? You need to respect yourself first and foremost. No matter what your heart tells you, there will be another guy that will come along that will treat you better. Take yourself out of the situation, and think if this happened to a friend of yours, what advise would YOU give? Forget him and don't look back.
2006-06-28 17:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tracey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, being a boy, would never take back a girl that broke up with me, THEN wants me back cuz the other guy that musta been better than me already has a g/f... i think that if he left you, you should just leave him alone, unless of course you still have feelings for him, then you can thjink about that yourself instead of asking people on the internet!!! :P hope this helps...
2006-06-28 18:04:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there,No he didn,t(smile),well girl to honestly tell ya this,ever in you life to stand or become second with a man,however,this guy is simply playin you,you are your strenght young lady of how you deserve to be treated?with your heart and all!He was very stupid!the other girl had a man(lol)i know he felt like crap! what he decided to do he felt that it would win him over and all is fine?(Not) stil have you?girl you will have this problem several times down the line if you were to give another chance,but i say don,t lower yourself lesser in excepting crap from guys,and if he was serious bout being your boy friend he wouldn,t have ever did what he went out for?now he wanna come back to momma,girl if you like heart aches,tears ,and depression?behind this one,more power to ya!use you smarts!and respect your self!then to you shouldn,t have to be thinkin bout it,he ain,t right!girl!he ain,t right!Oh!happy late birthday!!!!!!and there will come the right guy for you whom will respect your heart,as well as being a female!
2006-06-28 18:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by sheena s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sense fortunate, thank goodness you probably did no longer flow each and all of the way with him. this way of guy, grow to be on no account with you for the main suitable suited reason. If a guy particularly likes you, he could desire to attend to have intercourse with you. in case you had performed it, he could have dumped you besides... so don't sense like, you ignored out on something. If he dumped you bc you weren't doing what he needs, he grow to be spoiled besides and have faith me, in case you had, the demands would not end there. His buddy is inexpensive. he will grow to be tired of her after some months and that they are going to at last wreck up... no guy respects an trouble-free lady. If I have been you, i could forget approximately approximately him and her, cut back them off from face e book, each thing. desire this permits, been on your footwear, and chuffed to be jerk-unfastened,
2016-12-14 03:09:39 · answer #5 · answered by nella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont settle for less.we Are the only ones who can teach people specially people like that -how to treat us! Did you just said that your 7 month relashionship with your boyfriend end it because he net another girl! Hey if you get back with him ,is like telling him,hey is okey to do thid to me,is ok you to keep on doing this to me" thats the messege your will be giving to him.Take time not to think about him but about yourself.Sound like you are in a very vurneral moment in your life,and when we are in a state like this we shall not make important decision that takes a clear mind to do.Work with your self estime,and ask your self ,what or why should you whant to give him another chance..for example...Are you afraid to stand up for your self and tell him We most move on ,I am not going to put my self in a situation like that,until he gets profecional help and learn how to respect a woman. etc.Hope this help.If he makes threath to you call 911.Love is something and been in love is another thing.Wish one are you feeling for him.Love and concer + pitty or do you you think you can forgive him and think you will always be in love with him no matter what! guess what ,ones a man brakes your heart you never in love with him.But you will still love him,miss him and care for him.That is not the same.It will never be the same again.Give your self value and avoid people that puts you down like that and avoid those who be little you or make you feel down,or if is like it was your foult or something.Is not your foult what he did to you.You are the only one who owns the dictionary that discribes you! Is ok,to have feelings..talk to a good friend ,there is a lot of people who cares and mean well for you and will not put you down like that.Remember dont settle for less,it will only get harder and worst if you give him a 2nd chance.Let him know you can forgive him but that does not give him the right to harras you and insist on you for another chance.Now is up to you.If I did it,you too can do it..keep your chinn up! everything is going to be allright,lissen to your guts!
2006-06-28 18:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Canela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should laugh in his face! A guy like that is just trying to play both sides of the fence. You need to wait for a WAAY better guy who will respect you and not play with you as a toy while his mind is on his other girl! I know how hard it is, but just let him make an *** of himself. You're better than that.
2006-06-28 17:49:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
No second chance for this one.
If a guy breaks up with a girl two days before her birthday it means that he doesn't want to buy her a birthday gift or spend ANY money OR time with her on her birthday.
Cheap bastard doesn't love you; doesn't deserve you and shouldn't have you.
Period.
Forget him.
2006-06-28 17:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Temple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way please listen to this advise!!! If he only wants you back because the other girl has a boyfriend already that means that he really doesnt like you and I'm sorry but he doesnt deserve a second chance
2006-06-28 17:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were in that situation i wouldnt take him back. if the other girl didnt have a boyfriend would he still ask you back out? it sounds like he only wants you back because he cant have the other girl. i wouldnt give him another chance.
2006-06-28 17:46:40 · answer #10 · answered by I ♥ Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read what you wrote. if your friend had the same issue, would you tell her to take back a guy who basically just wants her again because the person he really wants is taken? If you let his treat you like garbage, he will!
2006-06-28 17:48:02 · answer #11 · answered by Christina A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋