so my friend was going out with this guy who also a really good friend and when ever we hung out she would get really jealous. then he moved away and but they are still going out. but now she is always with this other guy who i really like and i don't want her to think i only like him because she is with him....whats going to happen when her boyfriend gets back?
can i ever go out with boy #2 without thinking that he's rather be with her?
2006-06-28 17:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jessica, you're young, and you appear to have formed a mistaken impression: that the world's boy supply consists entirely of boy #1 and boy #2.
Go out more, meet new people, and discover boys #3 through #226, and try dating them. The older you get, the more you'll realize that increasing the dating pool only improves your odds of finding a really great partner -- and restricting your dating options to the people you know at this moment in time is a recipe for situations like the one you describe.
2006-06-28 17:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, it's all about competition. Sometimes you have to be selfish about love.
But then again, there are many other fish in the pond. Don't settle for the one who fool around. If he rather be with someone else than you, then he has not seen the best side of you yet.
There is an old Chinese saying "Why give up the entire forest for a tree"? Think about it.
2006-06-29 00:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by OnTheTreadmill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to really evaluate your friendship with this girl. i have a rule with my girlfriends---you don't take someones man, you don't mess with someones man, and if you like a guy --you don't block the play. I think she is a little jealous of you and may be a tad selfish wanting all the boys attention. If she was a true friend she would never make you feel like crap. Good Luck!
2006-06-29 00:22:16 · answer #3 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like him, go for him, maybe he like u too, u dont know until u ask him or get to know him, but she is your best friend, say away from him than because friends are hard to came those days, u always find boyfriends but it hard to find true friends,Friend are always there for u when u need them.so dont betray u friend
2006-06-29 00:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Single 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, get him, if your friend don't like it, it's not like its their choice, its your choice, so I'm not telling you to choose him go whats in your heart. not what with she thinks.
2006-06-29 00:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get a choice. Her or him. You CANNOT have both.
2006-06-29 00:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋