Bad Temper.....?

Question

MY GIRLFRIEND HAS A REALLY BAD TEMPER AND SHE OVER REACTS OVER SMALL THINGS , WHATS THE BEST WAY TO DEAL WITH THIS?SHE LIKES TO GET HER WAY.

Answer 1

hmmmm........ love is the only way to deal with this buddy....
your girl is dominating.... people like these just want to have things their way....
you have to keep your calm... i know it is pretty hard to control such people, so i will suggest you to do these when she gets angry....
1. avoid giving back answers, which can lead to an argument.
2. if possible, give her a nice tight hug, and say "i love you"... this is when she is at the peak of her anger.... if she loves you, her anger will immediately come down....
3. try to listne with interest as to what she is saying, even though she is saying some S.hit.... don't speak in between... let her complete.... actually don't speak anything.... just try searching in a comic way here and there....
when she asks you what you are searching for, tell her you are searching for the smile which has been lost from her face.... when she smiles on this, say...."got it!!!!"... and give her a hard kiss on her lips.....
4. you h ave to be very sporting to do all these and remember, don't tense yourself....
her reacting over small things shows that she is a bit kiddish.... come on... can you not deal with a kid...????

Answer 2

don't be afraid of her temper. she needs to learn she can't get her way just because she has a fit.

the next time she gets mad, decide whether the issue is important enough to you to challenge her on it. if it is, then let her know she can get mad but you are not giving in this time. don't yell or get mad yourself, just be clear and confident about what is important to you.

good luck. you deserve to be treated with respect.

Answer 3

Step back and take a look at yourself. Has she ever complained about you? Maybe it isn't meant to be. Maybe you iritate her.

Answer 4

kick her to the curb

Answer 5

well-said, justdoit :-)