Hi, I'm 29 and my girlfriend is 20. We've been together for about four year and were very happy together, but now she has started going to other boys' houses. She says they're just friends but I can't help feeling jealous. When I told her about how I feel she just says they're friends and she can see her friends if she wants to. Am I just being paranoid or is she doing something wrong? Please get back to me. It's driving me crazy. Thanks.
2006-06-28 17:03:42 · 22 answers · asked by SineB_NaD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur a bit paranoid
2006-06-28 17:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not paranoid!If you have told her how it makes you feel and she continues to do that then she does not respect you.I have been married for 16 years.I am a 31y. old woman and in any relationship anything that hurts or makes your partner uncomfortable no matter if it may seem silly to you,If you realy love them then you would not do it.I will say this and I am sorry but take it from someone that has cheated.I think she is playing you for whatever reason.I have been there I am not proud of it and if I could do things different I would.There is no reason she would need to go to another mans house.I have no guy friends If I need something from a man I go to my Man.If I need something else like talking about girl things or whatever I go to my girlfriends.Get an investigator if you don't believe me, but she is cheating.I wish you the best of luck! Remember one thing "No One Can Give You What They Don't Need" Good Luck,Angela
2006-06-29 00:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends if she just made these friends or if they were her friends when you started dating. If they were friends at the beginning of the relationship then your just paranoid, if they are recent friends then you should be a little concerned. Maybe she is getting bored or she sees there is not going to be a big commitment after 4 years.
2006-06-29 00:08:11 · answer #3 · answered by terrbeary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say she just started going to these boys' houses. Why just now? Did she suddenly make new friends? Did she not have any male friends in the last 4 years? Its one thing to have had male friends all along since you've been together but another to just start seeing males. Good luck.
2006-06-29 00:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by blood_hooks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sisters boyfriend thinks the same thing when my sister goes out with her guy friends, its fine to not trust her friends, but if you really care about her you should trust her, your probably just being paranoid. There are those rare accassions were the girfriend is more than friends with the guy(s) she's been hanging out with, but if you know in your heart that she really cares about you, and if you really care about her, then don't worry about it. All of my friends have guy freinds that they hang out with, and none of them cheat on their boyfriends, trust what your heart is telling you. I'm a girl, I should know these things. I hope this helped.
2006-06-29 00:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Gemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be dating a girl that's 20 if you just asked a question and mentioned you are 63 and were married????
2006-06-29 00:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by DragonHeart18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im confused on this one because you have a girl avatar but you say your gf is seeing other guys? but anyway you do have a right to be jealous because it shows that you care alot so she should appreciate it. but on the other hand she does have a right to see her friends as she wishes because she is her own person and no one's suposed to own anyone. but if she's spending excesive time with them then she should be inviting you to go with her. not just go on her own, she should be wanting you to meet them and be good friends with them. so if you ever ask for that and she feels threated or offended then you have every right to be mad because somthing is up. but as long as she's comfortable and ok with you knowing them and going with her then she's most likely just friends like she says.
2006-06-29 00:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by xbinary_dreamsx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could just be paranoid. but they say trust is the key to every relationship so one day go to these outings with her see what it's like see if you approve of those type of people but never accuse her.
2006-06-29 00:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your paranoid, but honestly I go through the same thing. Just talk to her, and tell her how you feel.
2006-06-29 00:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur probably just a little paranoid. my boyfriend gets like that too sometimes and i know it's just because he cares. dont worry too much, it's the norm., talk to her about it, loosen up a bit. but it all really boils down to how much u really trust her.
2006-06-29 00:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, gotta side with the girlfriend. I used to be that way too, I had to Loosen up a little... Good luck
2006-06-29 00:07:20 · answer #11 · answered by JohnnyRotten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋