What do teen guys (14-16) like in girls? Is there any way other than "looking hot" and physical contact to get them to like you? I am a shy girl and am 14. I'm not PICKY about guys, but I do have standards... AND morals. I'm not some skanky ho that they're gonna get some w/. I'm really not "hot" but ppl say I'm cute (i dont agree.....im chubby...but im working on it trying to lose weight....if anyone wants to include any exercise tips then plz do). I'm of medium height, large build (big boned...literally...not fat...big boned..there's this test u can do to ur wrist that determines what ur build is and i did it and got large), dark blonde hair w/ blonde and red streaks (colored at beauty shop...not natural), green eyes, and I am a t-shirt and jeans kind of girl (but I won't leave the house w/o my make-up done and my hair looking decent)...and i love REAL jewelry (sterling silver/gold...real gemstones) so I'm like always wearing some. Why can't I get a bf? I'm not desperate, just want bf
2006-06-28 16:18:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 14. im from orange county. u sound cool. id date u if i knew you. there are never any good, true girls out there. and chances are, ur not chubby. everybody thinks they're fat. its hardly ever true. anyways, u sound great. im not into the whole internet dating thing though. ill email you if ud like. its up to you. im in all honors classes and am a very good guy. im kind of shy too and am good at basketball. i play guitar but am terrible at it. (not afraid to admit it) anyways, u sould like a great girl. u shouldn't have any problems getting a bf. u sould nice, sincere(how do u spell that). there are hardly any girls left like that. what ever you do, dont stop being the great person you sould like.
2006-06-28 16:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey don't worry girl! I have the same problems, but the guys are like ALWAYS saying that I'm hot and all that kind of crap! Trust me, it's not all that great. I think that good guys that believe in God will notice you more than the girls that do wear skanky clothes because you aren't trying to get attention. Just be yourself and there will be a guy out there for you sooner or later. I always thought that I would never get a bf, but look at me now! I am being asked out left and right, but I usually say no to them. I know what you are going through because I am the same exact age as you. If you want to keep in touch with me, my e-mail address is softballchick10410@yahoo.com or vbtracksbrox@yahoo.com is my screen name is you ever IM.
2006-06-28 16:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by softballchick10410 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you a secret.. guys will come along in due time find things like what you like doing. develop interest and join activities (more chances of meeting people) do things at the library good source of information. Get away from that library in front of you don't isolate yourself.
I'm impressed with your writing and grammar skills and a great command of the English language it very refreshing. I was miserable in English and sentence structures and still have troubles. Thank-you spell check In my day we had this thing called a book titled a dictionary arrgghh took a long time to figure out how that thing worked, like a couple hours.
Guys are impressed with girls that have skills and interest.
Another secret........... I used to ride my bicycle every where carrying a kite along before anyone every thought of getting out and exercising and being in fresh air it really didn't occur to me maybe other people might like these things.
Be your own drummer and be your own best friend for the time being. Get a bike it doesn't require but burning a few calories and good muscle's
Good Luck
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2006-06-28 17:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have been working on may have been devoted largely on physical improvements. I guess guys who would love girls only because of physical reasons may not be your kind of guy. How about developing your skill, intellect and may be emotional maturity and even spirituality. These things develop personality and once these are developed you acquire what is often times called the X-factor, which really enhances your attractiveness and more importantly prepares you for a more meaningful relationship.
2006-06-28 16:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Edgar V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it right now. Not all guys are looking for a hotttie, but if your not, you need to be able to "click" with they guy and have a great emotional connection with him. Just look for ppl to have fun with. At that age it is the most important thing, just have fun, and see where it takes you. Good Luck
2006-06-28 16:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by kingpenguin_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just did... lol
Girls wo are easy to talk to.
2006-06-28 16:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by soccerplayer2491 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried asking?
2006-06-28 16:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋