BEEN THERE DONE THAT!!!
Girl step up to the plate, be a woman, and call him on his BULL. The direct approach is always the best approach.The worst he can do is lie. And if he does lie to you don't worry you will find out about it. All thing that are done in the dark will eventually come to the light. So keep your self occupied and do your own thing cuz when he realize that you ain't worried bout loosing him, he will be all up in your face trying to get you to stay with him.
Good luck girl ....I'll be cheering for you
2006-06-28 17:06:12
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answered by Kristin G 1
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Your young and so is he this will probably not be the last relationship for you both. From the sounds of things he's trying to build a future for himself wheather that includes you is upto you and him and how you respect each other. I't seems to me that you may be smothering him. If you become to absesive and demanding you will just push him further away. If you truly have strong feelings for him it's time to sit down with him and talk. Let him know that you support him in his ambitions (only do this if you truly do, don't say it and not mean it this will only come back to bite you and you will loss his trust) and that you want to be apart of his life ask him if you can attend some of his practices and go to all his games. Then ask him if the two of you can have just the two of you time. Agree on those times maybe dinner and a movie, or better yet go to the batting cages or to the park to shoot some one on one, you get to spend time with him and he gets to spend time with you and still work on his activities. Sometimes we never find out that they are cheating but when you sit down and talk about where your relationship is going make a pack to be honest with each other. Agree to tell the other if there is ever a time in your relationship that you don't want to be with the other you will tell them before you seek another. It will hurt to hear that but it would hurt more if the other was with another. Sometimes absents makes the heart grow stronger. Talk to him and give him some space because if you don't you will loose him and not to another. If he is with someone else, take some time to greeve then chalk it up to experiance and move on. Best of luck to you........
2006-06-28 16:41:22
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answered by Beauty Queen 1
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Oh my god, the best thing you can do is stop getting so attached. You're gonna fall in love like 50 more times. I guarantee you in a year or less, this guy will be gone and a new frog will come along.
2006-06-28 16:22:06
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all your to young to settle.Trust him till you see the proof.Start doing things for yourself to keep you buisy,just cause he found what he likes in life dont try to stop him from his dreams.If you leave him he might screw up what his goels are just to prove to you.Dont be like that.Now if your friends see with another girl and you start hearing stuff then just be his friend.But he is just being a kid,it takes men longer to grow up,let them be kids,somday this will alll pay off
2006-06-28 16:23:40
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answered by ? 2
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it's obvious isn't it but if you feel you can't trust him than why are you still with him a relationship is based on trust and if you don't have it than you don't have a relationship be upfront with your man and let him know what your thinking it be the best thing to do cuz then you can bust out the questions and get the truth even without him telling you if you know what i mean.
2006-06-28 16:27:52
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answered by flirtragious 2
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Hello there,been there done that?listen up!hun,there are several ways to identify cheating and he,ll never know(men?huh!)let,s go to the basics,cool playin baseball in all,and he,s looking at his future goal!even tells ya he loves you?cool,may do,difference though later down the line here!see what,s happening is time which allows!?excuses to do other then with the one we say we love!big impact,lil brother!?runnin buddy!hard but not!?a year is a cute time in relations to really know what one desires of the heart,evadently this guy is taking you for granted,difficult some what to proove not living together,but stil there are ways?but in your case,if he loves you like he says,word this shouldn,t be a problem nor a arguement,or dissagreement between you to!ever asked to attend a game or practice he attends? but you gotta watchhhhhhhhhhhhhh!scan all iles!!!and areas?if do,if ain,t right ain,t right but don,t jump to conclusion so soon,though!you gotta watch!ever,asked that you can hang with them out or being with the bro?or even if know the location shoots stop on by,unannounced,oh!i was passin by and just wanted to say hello or somethin will come to mind?you gotta watch,then leave,talk to you later,now,if you really wanna know which is playin hard ball too with out knowing the out come hope for the better!don,t call him or answer the phone a couple of time,if he calls?or have a message,i,m busy or somethin a couple of times!to set a seed,and mess up his dailey on goings,tryin to wonder the possibilities to just like you!you need to watch!Two can play that game?(blockbuster!)you,ll learn somthin!til he comes to his sences or not,with the above?i mentioned,if you get static behind any?girl somthin isn,t right?he may or may not realize what he,s doing?and thinks it,s just a guy thang,but,feelings are envolved,if he claimes that he,does?he should know his priorities being with a female evadently!not!you are the love of this guys life he claims,but neglect the maine one whom is his shoulder,or true friend as well,and that,s not love!sayin and doing is totally differ!like love and being in love?i think he needs a girlfriend talk,express your self from your soul may be and let him know how you feel and he,s treating you,if tired of,cool!wanting to make changes cool but if he,s not!!!!!!!,girl it ain,t right!Blockbuster go get (why did i get married?)It,ll teach ya somthin girls!TRUST!!!!
2006-06-28 16:54:04
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answered by sheena s 2
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even as he without caution has events that he under no circumstances had to do earlier...even as he avoids your calls, or isn't there to take them, if his ideas-set in the direction of you is replacing, if he tells you he "merely desires some ME time" in case you stay jointly a number of those are indications too... a million. decrease want to be with you sexually. 2. without caution tries new sexual positions. 3. operating late extra in many circumstances. 4. Mysterious telephone calls. 5. receives indignant once you look on the cellular telephone, pager, or workstation. Is secretive of such. 6. scent of body spray on their clothing. 7. Takes a bath once he comes homestead. 8. you stumble on hairs or different products on his body or in his possessions. 9. starts taking extra care jointly with his visual charm. 10. Accuses you of dishonest. 11. he alterations his time-honored undemanding without reason or reason.
2016-10-13 22:40:42
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answered by ? 4
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If your boyfriend is cheating on you, he will find faults in you that he never mentioned in the past. Also and more important he will began avoiding you and have the dumbest excuses. Time to find a new boyfiend. Good Luck.
2006-06-28 16:23:42
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answered by rudy a 1
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Ask people to look around, and talk around. Maybe follow him oneday juss to make sure. And if you do see some girl.. dont freak out.. break up with him clean and clear. Stay strong & dont lose hope.
2006-06-28 16:22:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Christ! He's out playing baseball for God's Sake!!!
What? You'd rather have him drinking in a bar picking up broads and God knows what else (that he can bring home to you). So give him a break!
God! You kids are doomed. Doomed I tell you!
2006-06-28 16:20:15
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answered by Quasimodo 7
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