I really love my girlfriend but find my self looking at other women,i never act on it though:but it worries me that i might pass that boundarie one day!Do women do this as well?
2006-06-28 16:10:13 · 13 answers · asked by mielo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you find someone you truely love and find attractive you will start to notice that people you used to find attractive no longer are. Since I found my woman I have noticed that every woman I see is flat out ugly compared to her. I can honestly say she is the most beutiful woman I have ever laid eye's on.
2006-06-28 16:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for guys, even those in committed relationships, to notice attrative females. I understand your concern about going to far. Do you have any older male friends/relatives that you can speak to about this? You can ask them to help keep you accountable in staying true to your committments. (NOTE this requires you to be willing to be open with these males, hence why I said trustworthy.) If you are a Christian, I also suggest making it a matter of prayer.
In response to your last question -as a woman, yes I do notice the males whom I find attractive. But I make sure I never do or think something that will cause my future (whomever he is) husband to be embarrassed or question my committment to him. I have some wiser, older women who help keep me accountable in my actions, behavior, speech and thoughts in this area.
2006-06-28 23:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by southerngirl0525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong as long as you're not making it obvious you are checking out others in front of her. It's natural to look at other people when they have qualities that are attractive to you. Men and women do it.
2006-06-28 23:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in any relationship it is common to look at another person that does not mean you don't love your girl more than likely she looks at others guys she may just find that person attractive just like you do .and that is okay word of advice don't look while your girlfriend is with you unless both of you are very confident in your relationship status
2006-06-28 23:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERYONE looks. As long as you have working eyes you are going to look. It doesn't mean you do not love the person you are with or that you would cheat.
Remember: You may look but you may not lick;)
2006-06-28 23:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by i_am_the_dida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal to look at someone and say wow she's/he's hot. Your not dead! I am a girl and we do it all the time. Don't freak out about it, but don't stare! It shows disrespect for your girl.
2006-06-28 23:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think its wrong AS LONG as you NEVER cross the line..BUT if you are worried you could cross the line i would say avoid doing it as much as possible...and ya i know girls who do it but they know not to act on looking
2006-06-28 23:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumtimes but sum women only care if u look while theyre talking to u about sumthing they care about and ure not listening
2006-06-28 23:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by joanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dawg, dot sweat it. Its human nature. I bet ur girl does it all the time
2006-06-28 23:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Ace-Balla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone does it-even nuns & priests,etc....
as long as you don't act on it you should be fine...just don't let her catch you-she might get hurt and/or pissed off at you!
2006-06-28 23:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by UNCLE PumpKinHead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋