She keeps telling him that i say stuff i dont and that im being mean to her when im not and that im fightin with her when im not.. and she wont leave me and him alone.
2006-06-28 16:04:58 · 26 answers · asked by ButterCup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he doesn't trust you and listens to her, he isn't right for you and may still have something for you.
tell him you can accept him and his ex to be friends but she doesn't always have his best interest at heart.
maybe you should have a talk with both of them together...and bring up certain examples to prove you're innocent!!
2006-06-28 16:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend you're going to start seeing other people because he still isn't over his ex! If he's listening to her all the time, you need to move on. As soon as you do this, you'll be sending him the message that you won't put up with that kind of BS! He'll respect you for that, and probably give you more attention. If he goes running back to his ex, then that's where he was headed in the first place.
2006-06-28 23:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in this case violence could solve the answer but if you don't want to do that talk to your ex and tell him what is really goin set up a plan make a trap for this chick and catch her red handed
2006-06-28 23:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to leave BOTH of them .. and be alone yourself. Obviously she's still in the picture. Wake up!
2006-06-28 23:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldnt beleive any of the stuff she says if he is REALLY over her i had the smae problem then when she finally left him alone and he did stop likeing her he told me he did kinda have feelings for her but now he doesnt even think about her
2006-06-28 23:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth Ann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend likes you more, than there should be no problem just make sure he knows the truth and all is well.
2006-06-28 23:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Megra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh- sounds like my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law- don't you just love those borderline personalities...read "Stop Walking on Eggshells"- it gives good coping strategies when dealing with these folks.
2006-06-28 23:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the one who needs to realize what she's trying to pull and HE has to be the one to tell her to get lost, maybe she'll feel stupid and give up
2006-06-28 23:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by macy5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is doing it to get under your skin and drive a wedge between you and your boyfriend. The only thing you can do is ignore her. If your boyfriend believes her and not you, then lose him. You have to have trust to have a relationship.
2006-06-28 23:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kimberly A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you ignore her and she'll get tired of the game and go away. If she can't make ya'll unhappy...she won't be satisfied.
2006-06-28 23:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by Georgia Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋