She says she is, and says i don't need a condom, and what if she wants me to 'finish' in her? TOO risky? would it be rude for me to ask to see her pills or something? how would i find out with out pissing her off?
2006-06-28 15:56:49 · 35 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
use a condom, tell her its better safe than pregnant
2006-06-28 15:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask to see the pills, she will probably get pissed. You should just sayb something like " I think that we should still use condoms. The more protection the better" Good Luck.
2006-06-28 16:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by Carrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a matter of trust. If you don't trust her, use a condom anyway. Tell her no birth control is 100% effective and you like to be sure. If you do trust her, then don't worry about it. But there's no real way for you to be sure she's taking her pills unless you watch her take them everyday.
2006-06-28 16:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER!!!! If you feel uncomfartable, tell her you are only wearing a condom to protect her. Even if it is to protect you. By the way, birth control pills don't always protect from pregnancy especially if you are taking other antibiotics. Trust me, I got pregnant while taking the pill. I have a 10 year old to prove it.
2006-06-28 16:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ms_KMH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe her and suffer the consequences later. Known too many guys that got kids they didn't want because they trusted a girl that said they were protected and they were LIARS!!!
Besides, you have a right and a responsibility to protect YOURSELF...not just from unplanned babies, either.
No glove, no love, unless you are willing to deal with all the consequences that come from your decision.
And, if you piss her off for wanting to cover your own ***, then who needs her? There are plenty of girls that are honest and wouldn't be angry for you asking or using your own protection.
2006-06-28 16:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by 0000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you asked to see them, how would you know if she really takes them. i had a friend once, whose girlfriend stopped taking it for awhile and didnt tell him and she got pregnant. later she told him and things werent so hot between them. then theres always the chance of getting pregnant while on birth control, ive known a couple people that thats happened to, even though they were taking it regularly, they still got pregnant. so i guess you could never be too safe, if you dont want a baby, pull out. but a relationship should be based on trust, so if you dont know if you can trust her, then i dont think i would be having sex with her in the first place, but thats just me.
2006-06-28 16:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by loveboatcaptain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from a women never go for that ,she can show you and never take them .if she is not a on going relationship you should use a comdon ,because having a baby is not all you have to look out for and if she don't ask you to put one one how many people have she sleep with the same way .you penis should mean the world to you . So but on a hat to be safe and not sorry and if you just have to go bare bake the have sperm killer it a clear strip you put on your figuare the up in her thenyour safe
2006-06-28 16:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww hell NO!! I am sooo happy they are coming out with a pill for guys. That way a man can have his own form of birth control!! Don't trust a girl!!! Do you have any idea how many kids are out there because od decieving sluts??
2006-06-28 16:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by jizzles420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man you really are an idiot. I guess you don't give a crap if your dic falls off right??? And don't think that just because she is a virgin you won't catch anything.....there is stuff the that women can just be born with that can be sexually transmitted.
Use a damn condom whether she's on birth control or not.
2006-06-28 16:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never believe a woman when they say that. If she loves you and you don't love her she will do anything to keep you. Women are very devious and will stoop to very low levels. My ex-wife told me she was on birth control before we got married, but she got pregnant and I found out later she was never on it, we ended up getting married for the sake of the baby and custody. Now we are devorced fighting over custody of the child.
2006-06-28 16:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell her you dont want to take chances. Using two forms of contraceptives is better than one. ALWAYS use a comdom. even if your for sure shes on the pill, she could have forgot!
2006-06-28 16:01:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋