GOd loves me? Sure he does. He made me look like a horse and I am 32 years old and not once and I mean not once Has a guy talked to me other then tell me how ugly I am. Is this gods plan for me? Looking uglier than death?
How Am I supposed to be thankful to a God that has made me an Ogre on this earth.
I hate myself so much and Anyone that says God loves all is LYING!
TOday I was told by a coworker to place a bag on my head because I am causing eye damage. Thanks alot Jesus. Thanks alot GOD!!
2006-06-28 15:43:45 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Schadenfreude. You provide a vital service to society-by making people glad that they're not you!
-Avenue Q
And to everyone who asked-no, that is not a real picture, nor is this a serious confession. Sheesh!
2006-06-28 15:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God loves? Where did you hear it honey? He only tests, puts His creation under such a horrible test of patience that sometimes we are at the brink of losing everything, even faith in Him. I can understand the anguish of being singled out and literally hated in a society where only 'looks' and not the character counts. Whole America is riddled with billions dollar industries in cosmetics, ads, multimedia and all there stress is upon how 'pleasurable-presentable' are the women. In spite of all our morals there are 2,631 rapes in one day. Not something to be proud of. Do you know what goes through the mind and soul of the rape victim. God why did you make look relatively good looking. The ad agency, the Jewish mafia controlling the hollywood and gambling has projected the women as an object. Result it that society is riddled with this madness of being pretty. I envy those faiths which emphasize that beauty is not what you look at but what the person is inside. Your agony is so understandable that being un pretty means being rejected. Ever wonder that during sex you can't even see each other's faces clearly. I mean after all it is an act of fulfilling the hormonal desires and surges. When true love will come along, you will understand that its your soul and heart which glow with love and understanding. A pretty person is one who doesn't hate or doesn't have flaws in character. I am looking for one by the way:)
Hey come on. You are not alone. At least your pain is felt and shared by many.
2006-06-28 16:00:42 · answer #2 · answered by qualittee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, God does love you and he does not make mistakes. The love you have for God is reflective of the love you have for yourself. I know it's hard, but don't let others define who you are by how you look. You are a one of God's children and unlike man, he will not forsake you. If you focus on vanity, then vanity will consume you. There is so much more to life than that. Concentrate on doing good and thank Him for your health, strength, family, and so on because there are many others who have suffered so much more than you can possibly imagine. What about the woman who had gas poured all over her by her abusive ex-husband and then set her on fire. She had to have numerous surgeries and is barely recognizable anymore. The one thing she said was that she was still beautiful because she was one of God's children. If you have not noticed, there are lots of "odd" couples out there. The beautiful woman with the homely guy or the handsome man with the less than desirable woman. Do you honestly believe that looks is what drove these people together??? It's what's reflected on the inside that bring these people together. When you truly begin to love yourself, others will see it also. Before you know it, you'll have gained a new outlook on life and hopefully new friends that can appreciate the true beauty you reflect. Keep your head up!! God does love you.
2006-06-28 16:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by DiscoTrain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God did not make you ugly. It was your parent's genes plus your forefathers genes mixed in there that made your looks, weight height and colouring. So, do not be mad at God. If as you say you think you look ike a horse, options are available for you. Save your pennies, or use your credit card and make an appointment for a consultation with a plastic surgeon. And before you say no, rethink the idea out loud to yourself in front of a mirror. What would you like to change about your face? In the mean time, and I know it is hard, ignore the nasty comments, put downs, and reaffirm to yourself your excellent qualities. You are a nice person, because you know how it affects others to be mean spirited, it scars the soul. You are smart. You have compassion. You are good at your job. You are articulate and when you speak to people you look them straight in the eye. Good luck.
2006-06-28 16:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh Geez....
First of all, yes, there is a God and he does love you. He loves everyone. He may be the only friend you have.
Secondly, Beauty is only skin deep. You have your personallity! But by me looking at your picture, i think that you are pretty. You look like a good friend to anyone who would give you a chance. (I would!)
Third, I have been through what you are going through. I think everyone has some time in their life. (if they say they haven't they haven't lived, they have just lived as probably the bullies that treat people badly!) In high school I had no friends, and I hated myself, but you learn to live with your flaws and find out what you do love about yourself. God and you are your number one friend.
And about your co-workers. Laugh it up. They'll pay for it in the end. What goes around comes around!
Take care... and stop being so hard on yourself!
2006-06-28 15:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by laura_kay2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If God loved me so much why did he die for me? If God loved me so much why did I have such loving parents? Why did Job's children die ? WHY am I still alive? Why every time I look at a Bible I see the sacrifice that has spread life. Noone knows why they just know because and because may not be seen now but because Joni Ericson became paralyzed she has made an impact on millions and is blessed she lives she drives she has children. My mother was in a motorcycle accident when she was in college she is now 56 & has arthritis so severe her doctors say they don't see cases like hers because she's had it for over 30 years. She lived & raised 2 children teaches kids to read the Bible & has made such an impact on those around her, she may soon become bedridden but she still has a great desire to spread the word the driver of the motorcycle died but she lived. She does not wish she was dead she just wishes her children get married. Why can not be answered but you will understand it beter by & by
2006-06-28 16:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to God, you're not ugly...your co-worker, however, has got to be one of the ugliest people i've heard of...God's plan for you, i would guess, involves far more than what is on the outside...you were created by God to look the way you do...but only you can make yourself into an Ogre...i can guarantee you that if you go into a Christian church, you will find plenty of folks who will love you for what is on the inside, not the shell you inhabit...and if only the "pretty people" had a chance at love and relationships, it would be a lonely place, and i, for one, would be SO available! here's a song my kids are learning in vacation bible school this week:
i will be real like Jesus
i will be set apart
while others look on the outside
God looks in the heart
2006-06-28 15:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by spike missing debra m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can anyone say to you, you have made up your own mind and that is how you live your life. There is much pain in your statement and you really don't want to hear anything any one has to say. But I will try, I am not good looking but who cares, not me and I certainly do not blame God. It is genes, our mothers and fathers, our ancesters that determine our features. In God's eye's all are beautiful. My mother was very pretty, not me as a matter of fact people thought I must be adopted, I thought that to. My daughter is beautiful, she is physically beautiful but the most important thing is she is inside beautiful. That is what all who have ever met her says.
Now you can choose to be a victim all of your life and blame everyone under the sun for your appearance but I promise that will never bring you even one ounce of solice.
A person can be as unattractive as a mud fence but when you get past the look you realize they have a heart of pure gold. Give me the person with heart everytime. Go to church, talk with the pastor join an adult group at church and start to learn how to live and have fun. Life is to short to live constantly worrying about how others presieve you. Go to a good beautician have her style your hair, light some candles take a long bath and listen to some soft music and pray for understanding and forgivness. Because only through forgiviness can you truly start to live your life. Please, life is much to short. and remember
"He that is in me, is greater than he that is in the world." With these words and feeling them to your very soul NO one will be able to hurt you or your feelings, Unless YOU let them.
Good Luck!
2006-06-28 16:05:32 · answer #8 · answered by joejo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well from the picture i see you are not hidious or ugly infact you lookfine to me so quit complainig and be happy you have two eyes a nose two normal ears and a moth with teeth in it.I have seen some people that have problems in the looks department and you i am afraid are not one of them not even close.GOD made the universe man made god and today mans idea of beauty is what airbrushing and make-up can do in photos.
lots of guys like all women tall short skinny fat so do not despare just put on a shirt thatsays horney and ready now and the first guy that says lets go climb on board and enjoy the ride . we are not choosy as you might think.
2006-06-28 15:56:14 · answer #9 · answered by playtoofast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter what anyone else says about you. You are beautiful in Gods eyes and that is all that matters. God made us look the way we do for a reason that only he knows. You may not be beautiful to yourself or to that coworker but to God everyone has their own beauty. And no one has the rite to say you are ugly because we are all created equally and even the most beautiful person in the world is of no more importance than you.
2006-06-28 15:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by poop k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. I know that it must be very tough being a woman and not being blessed with good looks, especially in today's society where every grocery store check out line has rows of pictures of what women are "supposed to look like".
Maybe He created you the way He did because He wants you to find His love for you before you find it from a human being. I know it doesn't seem fair, but you could have a lot worse things to complain about than not having spectacular looks.
What about the people who are born crippled or paralyzed or mentally defective? Do you belong to a church? If you came to the church I attend no one would be so insensitive as to look at your outward appearance and judge you. We know that God looks on a person's heart. Have you ever considered what you could do to be beautiful in God's eyes?
1 Peter 3:3 Do not let your adorning be external--the braiding of hair, the wearing of gold, or the putting on of clothing-- 4 but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God's sight is very precious.
By the way, your picture isn't very flattering because your hair doesn't look like you've done a whole lot with it to complement your face. Have you ever considered getting some beauty and make up tips from a professional? We all have to do the best with what God's given us, but at least we can do some things you know.
2006-06-28 15:51:37 · answer #11 · answered by Martin S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋