I supposevly have a gf, and well i am bi, but i really dont like her like her, but there is a guy i really like, and i dont know what to do, please help?
2006-06-28 15:40:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be honest with yourself and the other individuals. Gently end the romantic relationship with the gf and see what develops between you and the other person you really like.
Good luck.
2006-06-28 15:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mindee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you really a bi? or you are a straight gay using a girl as your front? Just be fair...i know it's difficult to come out coz the society is not yet totally open with the thought of same sex relationship but in being true to yourself you will be able to avoid hurting other people. About the guy you are eyeing for, befriend him in that way you'll find out his thinking about same sex relationship. You have to do that before letting yourself fall for him so that you will not get hurt yourself........if he's game then go for it but make sure that you will have a meaningful relationship with this guy and not just something because of infatuation or lust. now if he is very conservative, don't insist, go ahead and heal your rejected heart. But whatever happens be true to yourself so you wont end up hurting others...
2006-06-28 22:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by marguerite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I dont have an exact answer for you. All I know is that im a girl, and I have a brother who is bi. Hes in the same predicament, and you have got to get rid of her. Not that she has done something wrong, but because you dont want her, and leading her on is worse right? I just know that if my bf said this to me, or lead me on about this....it would be horrible...I wouldnt know what to do about this. So....do both of you a favor...Let her go....
2006-06-28 22:45:25 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, go for the guy cause seriously you are treating her worse by not telling her and making her believe a lie then if you were to just break it off and date this guy. She should know, it's only fair for her. Trust me I have been there in middle school, I know how she will feel cause my bf was bi. She will feel worse the longer you wait to tell her. You will also be relieved to be able to meet up with this crush of yours without feeling guilty of having lied to your girlfriend and being single and ready to mingle with this new guy. Good luck :)!
2006-06-28 22:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by SweetTina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with the girl. Go for the guy.
2006-06-28 22:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'm not bi but my friend is and if you like the guy better than you should dump her
2006-06-28 22:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by bri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like her, then you need to be honest with her. Doesn't matter if there is someone else, she deserves the truth so she can move on.
2006-06-28 22:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be neither legal or moral for me to honestly answer your question sir. Seek professional help!
2006-06-28 22:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't really like yo gf then you should break up and date the man.
2006-06-28 22:43:54 · answer #9 · answered by Teyawanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her a ask him out
2006-06-28 22:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by broken7792 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋