Teen girl answer only my boyfriend said my hair needs to be shorter what should i do?

Question

TEEN GIRLS ANSWER ONLY PLEASE

Answer 1

ask him why.

if he gives u a good reason, then consider it.

if he doesn't, then don't cut ur hair

Answer 2

Think About It Say For Instants You And Your Boyfriend Break Up. Every Time You Look In The Mirror You Are Going To Tell Your Self Why In The Hell Did I listen To Him. I Did The Same Thing And Every Time I look In A Mirror That Mistake Crosses My Mind. Have You Ever Told Him To Cut His Hair Or Change Something About Him You Didn't Like. Think About. Who Is More Important YOU or Him !!!!!!

Answer 3

Okay, it's nice and all that he has his preferences, but DON'T cut your hair unless it's something that you want. Trust me! He shouldn't be asking you to change the way you look just for him. If you want to cut your hair, if you think it's time for a change, then go ahead! Get a haircut! But don't do it just because he told you your hair needs to be shorter. If he really likes you, he'll stay with you. And if he's willing to dump you over the length of your hair, he's SO not worth it.

Answer 4

Giselle and I are 18...so we qualify for the "teen girls only" ;)

We've both had boyfriends...and our experience is that, we're teen girls... and we like to make our boyfriends happy. Obviously we feel good when our boyfriends think we look good. Now, here's the tricky part...if you don't WANT to cut your hair short...then DON'T! If your boyfriend really truly likes you, he won't care if you tell him you don't want to cut it. But if you don't mind short hair (and I, Lola, am I HUGE fan of short hair! Especially for the summer) then cut it and make the boy happy! I'm NOT saying do it JUST to make him happy...but do it just because you want to. I hope this advice helps!!!

-Lola & Giselle

Answer 5

get a new boyfriend. If he is telling you how you should style your hair, chances are he will be controling and unthoughtful in other aspects of the relationship. If you really like him but it bothers you, talk to him about it. He might not have realized it irritated you, or maybe his suggestion came out wrong. If he is just not a good guy, or commands you to do other things besides cut your hair, i would dump him.

Answer 6

we are just teens....and if you let a teen boy tell you what to do, and you do it....you will be doing it the rest of your life. These are the years we define ourselves, find out where we belong...figurout what we want to be ....you can not let a BOY take control of you....you seem to me...that you need to check yourself first and then decide if you need someone, , he's already controlling you...telling you what you need to do with YOUR body...yes hair is part of your body. Nothing more a teen boy wants than to have control over a girl , at his age thats gives him mad props.....
... wait you'll see...first the hair,then no make-up, then it will be your cloths, you let him have control....your done....what you do at this age will define who you are later in life...you are your own girl....make your own decisions. tell him you like it long...done....

Answer 7

I think you should do what you want. It doesnt really matter what your boyfriend thinks see what looks good on you. Besides its u who is going to be wearing your hair not your boyfriend. Be sure feel comfortable with what your hair looks like. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

ıf u like long hair and healthy dont listen him if it gets thinner you really should have a hair cut by the way I m already 24 but feel like and look like a teen girl :)

Answer 9

Get a new boyfriend.....your hair is up to you! If you want real style advice ask your girfriends! Teen boyfriends are a dime a dozen, your self-esteem is yours forever! Advice from one who has gone before you!

Answer 10

I'm just your average guy, but I say this - You shouldn't have to change your looks just because he tells you to. Just remember that. He needs to like you for who you are and what you look like. If he doesn't, he's not worth keeping around. Sorry, I had to input on that, my sister goes through the same thing just about every month with a guy. If he's "commanding" you to do it, leave him. It's not worth it to stay with a guy who's going to command you to do something. Those guys wind up turning into abusers. =)

Answer 11

Only cut your hair if YOU think it'll look better. Don't do it for him. If he breaks up with or gets mad at you because you won't cut your hair, you need someone WAY better. You don't want to date someone that controlling, trust me. You need to stay in control of yourself. But if you feel like cutting your hair too, go for it!