Pls help me i wanna try to always keep my mouth shut but i cannot i alwasy speak rude to mum n my elder sis..?

Answer 1

Perhaps it isn't a matter of keeping quiet.

One thing I have learned that has been invaluable to me is to know when to pick your battles. If you are jumping on everything with an opinion or resistance, you are hurting your chances of being heard when it truly matters.

So, ask yourself, is this issue important enough to state an opinion about? Do this each time you decide to jump in with your mouth open and your eyes shut.

Also, take three deep breaths, letting them out slowly before you speak. This oxygenates your blood, allows your body to relax and your mind to flow the words to your mouth freely. It will take the angry edge off your words so they can be heard easier.

Answer 2

Congrats! You made the most difficult step: admitting that you need to change.

Now you must look back, waaaaaay back, and even ask your mother and sister when you started treating them this way. Explain that you want to change, and I'm sure they will try to help you. Perhaps something happened when you were little that it was a big deal at the time, but now you've just been mean and resentful ever since. If you find something, you must ask for forgiveness and move on.

The next step is to be the type of person you would like to be. This will take practice. Then you must accept yourself for it. I'm sure your family would appreciate it as well.

I suggest reading a book called "The Power of Positive Thinking" by Norman Vincent Peale. It's a great motivator and will help you overcome anything you are faced with, even raise your self-esteem!

Here's another bright note: I don't even know you but I like you better already because you're wanting to change for the better :-)

It's going to take time, but remember, even the longest journey begins with a single step!

Answer 3

Help yourself! Knock off the crap! "Ooohhhh...boo-hoo... I can't shut my mouth and stop from being rude". Grow up and try acting civil instead of opening your mouth and speaking your mind! There is a time and a place for putting someone down or in their place little girlie.

I can't believe people are so ignorant that they have to ask how to behave civilly. Oh...don't take it personal. There is a multitude out there just like you. So you aren't alone.

Don't bother responding please. Remember, you solicited my opinion. You have it. It's yours to take or leave.

On a serious note. Control your impulses. You'll honestly feel better about yourself in the long run.

Answer 4

in case you have the urge to mention anything rash, chew your lip and rely seconds till some thing they are saying is over with or simply say the ones impolite matters within your head however clench your lips in combination. If all else fails, move in your room or move external to chill off. Good good fortune!

Answer 5

dont feel bad. i alway am being disrespectful and rude to my mom, and i just cant keep my mouth shut either. but i dont bother to try to change it.

Answer 6

try writing down, reading, and amending your responses before you say them for an evening or a couple of hours. tell them what your doing, i'm sure they'll be glad to support the change.

Answer 7

you should sit down with your mother and sister and ask for their advice. just sitting down and talking about it will help tremendously. as they are older, they probably would have more insight on this particular matter than you. just talk to them and get down to the issue! good luck.

Answer 8

you r rude