I've been with my boyfrin for about 8 months and I feel as though I'm ready 2 giv him my virginity. He has only had 1 partner and got tested (doesn't have anything) and i'm gettin tested next week (jus 2 kno where my status is and 2 make sure even tho I'm a virgin). The only thing tho is that I'm nervous about him seein my body (it's never been revealed 2 a male) becuz i'm not fat but my chest not exactly super big & even tho i got nice legs i wonder if i should keep my bra on my 1st time. Help a mami out!
P.S. I'm a 16-year-old female
2006-06-28 14:42:54 · 25 answers · asked by ~*La boricua mami*~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey that is totally and competly up to you. I think that you should wait until you are 110% sure that you want to give it up to him. I mean just think another guy could come along in a few weeks and he could be the ONE I think that you should at least ask him how he feels about you. Because I don't think that 8 months is enought time to give it up to any man unless he is Mr. Perfect. Just think about it.OK?
2006-06-28 14:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The real question is WHY do you want to do this right NOW and with HIM? Giving him your virginity does NOTHING for him and you may feel very soon after that it diminishes you. If he is not "the one" you want for much more than this, then keep your virginity and SHARE it with the "right guy" rather than give it away to the "right now boy" You have a lot of time to make this decision, and almost NO WOMAN ever married the guy who had her first. This is not love, it is infatuation and curiosity. Ask your self, "Do I want this for me, or am I trying to keep him with sex?" "Am I so curious about sex that I will experiment at it without LOVE?"
I do hope for your sake that you wait, and find love first, and then add sex to that. There is nothing so fulfilling as knowing that you are making love to the last love of your life. Good luck and God bless.
2006-06-29 06:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to feel comfortable enough with your partner that it doesn't matter if he sees you naked. If you are having difficulty just thinking about it, you need to reconsider having sex at all... I would never advise a person to have sex unless they are mature enough to handle ALL of the reprecussions of it. Being sexually connected to another person changes everything... are you prepared for that? Think about all of the things that are connected to sex... pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, HIV and or Aids, and that is not even getting in to the ethical and moral aspects of the act. Sixteen may seem like an age when you FEEL like you can handle sex, but believe me you will regret it later in life. Losing your virginity should be more than just sex... it is a gift you can only give once in your life... are you sure that the guy you are offering this to will cherish it as it should be cherished? I hope you really sit and think about this, because I feel that teenagers don't realize the joy and natural beauty of sex, to them it is just a form of passage to get over. Peace.
2006-06-28 14:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by julianna76301 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what you should do first. Go in the bath room and shave most if not all of your clit hair, leave a strip of hair above with a cool shape, make it look sexy.
It does not matter how big or small your breast are, it's the fact that you have two of them, all guys like to see, any pair, small or big. Makes no real difference.
Show him the full deal, and ask him if he would like to touch you.
2006-06-28 14:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear child, I think 16 is to young to give away a big gift,I'm not saying wait to your are 20 or so but at least finisha school plus some college before you decide to give away such a valuable gift. Once you have sex your personalty change and you will think you know it all,and do you rally know if this boy has been with just one person.please don't let him sweet talk you because if he really really love you he will wait.And far as your body you think sexy and your will be sexy......
2006-06-28 14:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by sweeppe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you this. He wont even care about your name or face.
Getting his penis in your vagina and ejaculating will be his only priority. What I dont get is the way young people ask the same questions over and over. Your not the first 16 created. Research first then act. You will be better prepared.
2006-06-28 14:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by jhvesterjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once back... very hysterical! men could no longer be allowed to graduate sex-ed with no need memorized variety 26. sure... trust it or no longer... maximum women persons have a gag-reflex. And in case you stress our head any farther down we can... GAG! you should come back up with a parallel record of what women persons could do in each and every of the 40 circumstances. which will be relaxing too, possibly variety 26 would nicely be something like, 'if he thrusts, chew... if he grabs your head and pushes it down, chew harder."
2016-10-13 22:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are only 16 you should wait... I am only 17 but you should wait a few years, i mean i not trying to like your mom but you have to value you and your body above having sex... it is only sex and it can wait til the right time, you and me have r whole lifes ahead of us. I have a friend that had sex with his girlfriend and now he is a dad .l..thay had been dating for over a year. and still r... it only takes one time...
2006-06-28 14:50:52 · answer #8 · answered by josh f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, be sure he is the one that you want to lose it to. don't do something that you will regret. if he really loves you he shouldnt care if your have huge boobs or not. he should care about how he feels. going that far is a big commitment. just take it slow and start just having your bra on... if you start to feel unconfortable then stop and put ur shirt back on but if you start to feel okay then just let things keep going...
2006-06-28 14:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Terra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel tha same way lol im skinny in all n i love my body but i dont kno if i shuld let my bf see it cuz i dont kno how he'll react! but jus how him everything if u want n if he has a negative reaction then u shuldnt let him take ur virginity.
2006-06-28 14:45:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jazmine A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋