I really like him, what do i do!!!!! i believe that my feelings should matter and they should all deal with the fact that there is comething between us!!!!! or am i wrong for thinking that!!
2006-06-28 14:21:57 · 19 answers · asked by I LoVe NiCk c!!!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In your heart of hearts, you know whether or not he is trouble. If he is trouble, then try to be strong and walk away. But if sis is being a jealous rival and you know for a fact he is a good guy, go for it!
2006-06-28 14:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by ocean 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women in our culture have been brainwashed by evil people into liking men who are scum. The point here is to make you ruin your life (did I mention these people were evil). Likely, this is happening to you. What things about him make him a high quality man? High IQ? Good family? Strong morals? Ability to go after what he wants in life....and get it?
What qualities does he have that make him a scumbag? Drug use? Baby with another woman? Trouble with the police? Violent? Uneducated? Does not bathe? Treats women poorly? Does poorly in school (ie stupid). Has a family that should be on Jerry Springer. Smokes. These are all signs of a loser and if you find them attracted, you've been brainwashed and don't know it.
If you don't take back your sexuality from this garbage, you will end up a complete loser with no life and no happiness. If you can't or simply won't do that, then you are just pusssy. Don't be surprised if you are treated as such for the rest of your life.
2006-06-28 21:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Also, does your sister know him well? Just becasue you really like a guy doesn't mean he's not trash. I was totally into a guy, and everyone said he was awful. But no. I "understood him." Well, my friends were right. I guess you should learn more about him from other people.
2006-06-28 21:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone has doubts about another person's character, you need to walk with wisdom and keep your eyes open. Never blindly accept a bad report about somebody, but don't reject it until you discover it a complete lie. If your sister is not given to whimsical accusations, I would talk to her and find out why she feels this way. Better safe than sorry. All that glitters is not gold.
(Sorry-no more cliches)
2006-06-28 21:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by steves_wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right. Haven't you hard of the expression "It don't matter what yo neighbor thinks, it is what YOU think" So go with what you think, if he is "trash" you will realize it in the future. Anyways sometime you CAN get a disease called BLIND FROM LOVE. LOL.
2006-06-28 21:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by ___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please listen to your sister. When you are falling in love, you are not a good judge of the character of the object of your affections. If your sister knows this guy, you should really take her opinion to heart. It could save you a lot of heartache--or worse.
2006-06-28 21:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by moviefan_martha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be a reason she is saying that. She is looking out for you and does not want you to date "trash". Listen to her and others!!!
2006-06-28 21:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow your heart, i experienced the same thing, my sister didn't like my bf as if he's like trash. then again we're still together and growing strong. my sister is so close to my boyfriend now. like a real sister&brother, they are.. *wink*
2006-06-28 21:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by radioactivefemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your sister why she thinks of him that way. If it's rumors (which are almost never true) do what you want. if there are facts though ask the guy up front. You wouldn't want to get yourself hurt would you?
2006-06-28 21:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by doesthissoundfine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends....does this guy do things that are against your morals? Has he been with a lot of other girls? Does he seem trust worthy? Is your gut, AT ANY TIME, telling you not to trust him? If you sister knows him, and she is trying to protect you...listen to her.....you may regret not listening to her
2006-06-28 21:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋