My sister is 12 and shes going to have a baby no one knows but me what should i do
2006-06-28 13:52:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
Okay, your sister certainly did not ruin her life, there's other options, but the most important thing to do is to TELL YOUR PARENTS! They can get your sister help and fix the whole situation.
The first "option" that may come to mind is abortion. I strongly encourage you to go to http://www.silentscream.org/ and watch the videos on the site. They truly are life changing, once you two learn what an abortion really is, she may not want to have one. Plus there are plenty of things that can go wrong during an abortion.
I say if your sister was stupid enough to have sex at such a young age she should see the consequences through. Since she's so young your parents might possibly adopt the baby and raise them as their own.
2006-06-28 14:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by be_your_self4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should support your sister and go to an adult you both are comfortable with and let them know. I would hope it could be your parents but unfortunately not always the case. This is very important for the health of your sister and the baby. Don't wait till it to late. Your parents will probably be more understanding than you both realize. The local health Dept. School Nurse, counselor are all there for you. Good Luck and God Bless you both.
2006-06-28 21:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell your parents right away!!
It is too young to be pregnant.
If I was in this age, I would have chosen not to have this baby.
Even it was cruel. And, you need to think for your sister about the future. Does she and the baby provide for the future?
Also, your sister has a very long road waiting for her to succeed.
However, these are only my opinions.
2006-06-28 21:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should talk to her about it. if she is not to far along then talk to her about getting an aborshin. or else if she is to far along then you need to talk to her jus about what she is going to do after she has the baby, how will she take care of it, will she finish school, is the father going to be there. she needs to know these things and have a plan, u just can go off and have a baby and not have a plan. but u also need to talk to her about telling your parents before the baby is born so that they can help out with things the parents are not going to hate her because she is their daughter, and they supposed to be there for their daughter so u just really need to talk to her.
2006-06-28 21:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you need to encourage your sister to confide in your parents. If she doesn't then you should. That would be the best thing for her right now. If she plans on having this child, she needs to be seen by an OBGYN so that she can recieve the best medical care during this time. Most girls that have children at this age are highly prone to complications, leading to risk of death to herself or her unborn child. If you do not choose to tell your parents, please talk to a trusted family friend (adult) for advise on how to handle this situation.
2006-06-28 21:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mary C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well now we know. for one thing, there's web sites and hotlines just search on yahoo. if she's letting you tell a youth pastor or mentor you know, love, and trust. God bless you, good luck, and do not let her get an abortion because you said it, "she's having a baby." don't let her kill it. she'll be ok. talk to someone who can help you she needs to see a doctor. remember adoption is a good option. good luck I'll pray!
do not listen to others doom and gloom. they don't know what they're talking about it's going to be okay. just tell a mature person who can help. also, this would be better in Pregnancy and Parenting > Pregnancy or > Preteens
2006-06-28 20:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u have to tell ur parents cause in no time at all shes gonna start showing . listen most parents get mad at first but then they accept it , cause unless thier gonna throw her out on the streets which i doubt , they have no choice but to accept it, so either u or her be brave and tell ur mother , the baby inside ur sister needs to be monitored by the doctor ok
2006-06-28 20:58:36 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek counseling for her so she knows what direction she needs to take, she is but a child herself but will think she can handle it on her own, she needs to speek with someone on a professional basis to help her with her options. Dont wait, contact your local social services or a church to get a list of free therapists. They can even help tell her parents so maybe they can support her in her decisions.
2006-06-28 20:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by tracy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your parents about this. That's really young to be having sex. Didn't your parents talk to you guys about all that stuff? Support her but how old are you?
2006-06-28 20:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by AMIG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't tell your parents then you have to go to a professional who can help...you must get some help for her.
2006-06-28 21:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by westie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋