ok this girl that i like & know for almost 2 years does not like me. but i always know that since i met her. i tryed talking to her but every time i get close enough to talk to her i end up faking and not saying anything to her... basicly it is like this. recently i have tryed to talk to her so many times & ended up in the same way... not saying anything i have done it so many times that she thinks im stalking her and reported me to the school.
2006-06-28 13:50:59 · 53 answers · asked by jdela2221 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either grow some balls and just say something to her or give up and find someone else
2006-06-28 13:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should just accept that she does not like you in that way and move on. You should try to garner the interest of a resonably attractive girl(in your eyes), that's not her. Some key words of advice: Try to reinvent your image. I assume that you're still in high school(those were good times) or close to that age, so it's still time to reinvent.
1) Always say less than necessary - The more you say the more you look common. Try to talk as little as possible.
2) Try to rebuild and defend your reputation - Try to be more social and pay that girl no mind whatsoever.
3) Try to court attention but don't be to much of an attention whore.
4) When you like a girl, conceal your intentions - It sounds cliché, but friendship helps to lower the high, thick, defensive walls of suspicion. Don't go blabbing to everyone about your love for her before she's even half aware of your existence.
5) Don't crowd around her all day - Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
6) Don't show your hand to her - Let her know as little about you as possible.
Follow these and you'll be good to go with the ladies.
2006-06-28 14:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by jajais4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to either toughin up and get some guts or just leave the girl alone obviously she's not interested and she reported you for stalking her. sorry to say it but u sound so desperate it's actually ridiculous.for your own sake find someone new to love.
TIP: the more a guy ignores a girl the more the girl wants him.
so just act like she doesnt exist and move on.because that's what she's doing to you.
JusT kEepIN iT reAL
2006-06-28 13:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety if someone kept coming up to u and then just stood there and said nothing i think you might report them 2 the school espically if it happened after 2 years.
there is no revenge odviously she dosn't feel the same, you can't just change someones feelings youshould move on and try 2 make some friends who are girls so u don't freeze up when u talk to one who attracts u.
2006-06-28 13:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make new friends. She has no obligation to talk to you and if you keep hanging around her and making her feel uncomfortable, she will like you even less.
If she has reported you, then you have an obligation to apologize. You have to ask the principal, vice principal or school counsellor if you can meet with her and them in the office to apologize in person and explain your actions.
If she doesn't want to meet, even for an apology, that is her prerogative. You can write a letter of apology, hand it to the school counsellor to review and have him hand it to her so that she does not have to see you. Whatever you do, don't say you still want to see her--she obviously won't want to hear that. Don't be surprised if she tears up the letter.
2006-06-28 14:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by tiffany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey first
you need to brath first when you try to talk to her you probably get all SWEETY and get al choact up right?well you need to be positive you need to go up to her and stand there and when your standing there pinch yourself and say her name and start the conversation.if not write her a note saying i want to talk to you in private .And then tell how you feel ,and tell her your not stalking her and it will go from ther .
If your trying to get back at her you can flirt with other girls around her our make her think your over for what shes done but ignore her and then you will get noticed freom her .and if shes one of the popular types date another poular girl but nothing serious then she will get jealouse becaus she made a mistake and her friend whos popular dated you before her and wil regreat it. good luck on everything you seem like the guy that just needs to trust his instincts and if she dosent see that you have good qualitys its her loss.
2006-06-28 14:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by kute_angel92 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you cannot talk to her and that made her think differently of you than you intended, you have no reason or excuse to seek revenge against this girl. Learn from your mistakes and go elsewhere. If you seek revenge you will prove to her and the authorities that you are indeed a stalker. Then they will deal with you most harshly.
2006-06-28 13:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like you need more practice and experience in talking to the opposite sex. And I wish you wouldn't blame it on the girl. She was probably just being safe and maybe you scared her. I would try to have understanding and sympathy for her, and learn from your mistakes. Next women coming up, you'll do better, I'm sure!
2006-06-28 13:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stalking her in a way. Just leave the whole thing alone since you don't have the guts and you have made yourself look pretty stupid by trying and giving up
2006-06-28 13:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey why would you want to be with a girl does not see the great things you have to offer. Go to school tommorow and talk to the girl who smiles at you first. She is probably hoping you would talk to her as much as you want the other girl to talk to you. Make her day and probably yours too. Good luck!
2006-06-28 13:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by hockey_mom_28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she didnt brake your heart, so you cant get "back at her" Second of all if a girl kept going up to you and just walked away, what would you think. Dont be such a baby, just go up to her and talk, talking to a girl isnt that big of a deal. even if you do like her.
2006-06-28 13:54:17 · answer #11 · answered by stargirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋