help me out please?

Question

Ok well ive been kinda bumbed latly. every girl in my high school has had a b/f and im the only one whos never had one. I mean yeah ive dated but thats all. most guys just want sex as most people say. and i dont like too say yes too most of the guys who ask me out because im affraid thier just after that on thing. and They are. i dont know what too do because i need a boy friend and im affraid i will never fall in love. and i would really want a boyfriend. thats all ne girls wants in life. Please help me.

Answer 1

Ok long answer here. Real stuff, no BS.
Firstly, you will want to widen the range of men who ask you out. Create the attraction and draw the attention. You need to be well groomed (hair, nails, makeup, etc.) and well dressed. Men are easily turned off by acne. Make sure your body is shapely and fit, but not muscular (yuck!). Also, please don't think skinny is good. All men of quality like curves, not bones. Fake tans are disgusting. Just make sure that your skin is creamed. Don't dye your hair, just make sure that it shines nicely and is long, at least shoulder length. Your clothes should vary from day to day, but it should never be too slutty or too conservative.If you have a big forehead, your hairstlye should cover that up. High ponytails are extremely sexy, but only if you have the right hairline for it. Wearing glasses will not make you any less sexy unless you think it does. If you think it does, it wil show in your self-conciousness. In fact, a lot of girls look better with some plastic-frame glasses. You should also walk with a strut. It will seem weird at first, but a strut conveys confidence and sensuality.
As far as your personality, it should be balanced. You should have charisma and carry interesting conversations, but don't overdo it or else you'll be seen as a clown. Be calm all the time and as witty as possible. Whatever you do, don't be a loner. Men are attracted to women who have a close circle of friends. Your friends, don't even have to be that attractive, just make sure that you are seen with them. Men of quality want quality women as their girlfriends. Have a life, and that doesn't just mean going to bars and malls. Do anything extracurricular that you like, play a sport, work, paint, dance, just get out there and do it. But just being good-looking and sweet won't cut the mustard. You will meet the kind of men you want wile you're out there anyway. Some of the the best and longest-lasting realtionships I have seen were connected to work in some way.
If you like a guy, simply make eye contact and smile, and he will come over and start a conversation. Once you start going out, you may want to have coffee or a quick lunch in a public place for starters just to feel the guy out. There are guys out there who just want to hit and run, its very and sadly true. Watch out for that. But the power is in your hands as the woman. The fact is that dating is fun, not a chore! Go out, have fun, eat, hey, the guy's paying for it after all right? You just have to date a whole bunch of different guys in series until you hit chemistry.

Answer 2

Okay is NEED a necissary word here? First of all Highschool boys are highschool boys they are glorified by how much they get and girls are called sluts if they do the same. A boyfriend is not like a fad. It's about finding someone you share interests in and like to spend time with. Besides you got tons of time to fall in love, college, work, adulthood. Just think, maybe those guys will be a bit more mature about a relashionship then those little highschool boys of yours. Just focus on yourself and your friends for now. Loves like walking into a door, you gotta let it find you.

Answer 3

Don't worry, don't rush yourself into getting a relationship for reasons that you only envy other girls coz that may only lead you to getting someone not worth your love. Just take care of yourself, think wisely in choosing the right guy, you've got nothing to loose if you keep yourself upright while waiting for your best guy. Love will just come to you in the right time & place.

Answer 4

hello there! how young are you to fall-in-love? for love is just a foolish game to play according to the song....do you really need to have a boyfriend right away? i mean because your schoolmates,friends etc have theirs? there's a song that says DON'T LOOK FOR LOVE, COz LOVE WILL LOOK FOR YOU..

now my advise for you,consider that in a relationship, it is very impossible that there is no sex at all...they just make sure that they dont get pregnant and take that responsibility for very young age.. do you want to be a virgin until you reach the age of 30? think about that! i dont mean that you have to try it now. why wont you try to answer one of your sooter that you like most and lets see what will happen...

Answer 5

girl, don't sweat it. I've only have one bf in my life and we started dating since I was 14 and I'm 18 now...you guys will find each other don't sweat it. I made a rule that if I'm not interested in a guy, then there's no way I'm gonna waist my time w/them and for that a guy will love you for it. Your time hasn't come yet and when it will, you will have the best.

Answer 6

you need aboy friend you say? hmm you dont need a boy friend and you should just wait untill a guy comes along that you like then go from there dont worry about what he might be after deal with it if it come tot hat

Answer 7

if they want 2 hav sex then 4git them try goin out wit a nerd or a geek or sometin u may start 2 like him.

Answer 8

Boyfriends seem important, but they aren't. You do not NEED a boyfriend. Don't ever let a guy use you for sex - NEVER!!!!

Answer 9

Church is a good place to meet nice guys who will respect you.

Answer 10

lore dont worry ill find u a boyfriend thats sweet and all of the above ur dang hott if u know wat i mean so stop stressin it your gorges and youll find some one o and plz pic me as best answer