im just curious to know why a man who is married with kids would flirt to the extent that he does with me? he is married, my doctor, and has kids. the type of flirting is unethical i already know that... but i just wonder why someone that knows that it's wrong professionally and morally would put himself out there on the line the way he does. what do u think? would you say that he is going through a mid life crisis? he is like 50 and his wife is the same.
2006-06-28 13:45:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You hit the nail on the head with "mid-life crisis". He needs validation that his manhood and virility are still intact. This is however, a breach of his professional ethics. His marriage may not be unhappy ... just stale. It happens in the very best of marriages.
2006-06-28 13:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I doubt if his age has ANYTHING to do with it.
If he is willing to jeopardise his career as a doctor, then, this guy has a problem.
I can assure you, that you are not the only one he flirts with and he has probably been doing this, all of his life.
Some people just can't remain faithful to one person.
He probably suffers from sexual addiction. He needs to see a proffesional, that deals with his kind of problem.
He is breaking the hypocratic oath and needs to be reported to the AMA.(America Medical Association).
I'm an RN and we do not tolerate that kind of behavior. If he keeps this up, he will lose his ability to practice medicine for the rest of his life.
2006-06-28 13:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him! Theres a hundred million more where he came from. This happens for several reasons. The biggest one being he lets his penis control him.
Either that or hes harmless. If you flirted back he wouldnt know what to do.
Men cant help acting like complete idoits.
2006-06-28 13:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by kellbell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ,more or less my friend the doc isn't happilly married. it's obvious he finds a stimulant within yourself that he doesn't find in his wife,if he's wife is the same age,it's possible you rejuvinates his hormones when your in his presence.be careful not to be tag as a homewrecker.pray and ask GOD for guidance and ask for his will be done in this tight situation. alright,good luck and may GOD blesses you and your love ones.
2006-06-28 13:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by sciencedivine 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're going through... maybe he likes you, guys at that age usually look for affairs or maybe he's unhappy in his marriage and is looking for a new love!
2006-06-28 13:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lovely Me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he is just a cheater and a dirty rat. Some men just don't care if they hurt their wives or ruin their marriage. They are just plain no good. Keep away from this guy. He is big trouble.
2006-06-28 13:49:22 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like it? First and foremost just don't condone it, tell him you're not there for pithy banter and remind him that he has a wife and children and you're not interested in disrupting their happy or unhappy little union.
2006-06-28 13:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by rkjackal02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be lack of attention or sex. mid life crisis definetly. some men are just naturally flirtatious also. they sometimes mean no harm.
2006-06-28 13:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by jenniferscott1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to sleep with you. mid-life crisis? maybe. maybe not. is his marriage unhappy? could be but not necessarily. why can't a woman get it thru her head a guy just wants to have sex with her, no strings attached? women are so wierd...
2006-06-28 13:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by folksingerjax 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When the sex life goes to pot, people tend to look elsewhere and you are probably very attractive, so he flirts with you.
2006-06-28 13:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋