how can u stop someone from playing game with ur emotion?

Question

i really like my x ( i know u r going to tell me she an x for a reason i know but i want a second chance at this) but she plays too many games i feel that is she is hurt because of the break up
how can i get her to stop the games i truely feel that once i could get pass the game we could make each other happy because the relationship went well until we started arguing but i have mature now and know how to handle confrontation

can anyone help thanks-

Answer 1

Quit being a little crying ho and shut your crybaby emotions off or be a real man and do not put up with it.

Answer 2

You can't make someone stop. That is their decision.
I would say your best bet is time. My first impression was to say, why would you want to be with someone who plays games like that? But, obviously, you have thought this through. If in time, when she is no longer hurting, she stops playing games, then you could tell her you want to try again. But until then, you will just be setting yourself up for a fall.

Confrontation is something that will come up, but if arguing is a regular thing, and game playing is the order of the day, perhaps you DO need to rethink this...

Good luck
Shiba

Answer 3

You know she's your "x" for a reason, but you may care for her alot.

I think that you should try to give yourself some space. Maybe she acts this way because she knows your there. I mean if you were not always there for her or you stopped paying so much attention to her she might wake up and see that she wants you too. Give it a shot..... you have nothing to lose.

Another thing is just to put your pride, shyness, or insecurity aside and just sit her down and tell her how you really feel. Be honest with her and think about what you say before you say it. She may surprise you and tell you "lets get back together." Good luck.

Answer 4

Honey i feel for u i really do, i am in the same boat as u. he is not my x but we have been seeing each other for 6 months now and he plays games to, he is always hiding how he feels for me cuz he got hurt in his past relationship. i have tried to get him to open up to me for the longest time cuz i care for him allot. but he wont. one min he acts like he care and the next he don't all he does is play around with my emotions. my advise to u is don't try to hard or u will push her away. give it some time then try again. best of luck to u. if u figure it out let me know. or if u want to talk I'm at , [e-mail].

Answer 5

If games are involved then most likely ur not the only one that needs to mature. U can't make another person do anything. Either stick with it or cut ur losses. I'd personally move on.

Answer 6

You can't get anyone else to do something they don't want to do. I think if you're honest with yourself you 'll have to admit that it's going to be hard to get things going good between the two of you and whenever you're looking to change the way that someone is you're fighting an uphill battle.

Answer 7

Write her a letter and explain what you've just explained here, or send via E-mail. Stand firm, as a more mature man, and don't accept less respect from her than you give.

Answer 8

Flowers mean "I sorry"

Chocolate mean "I Love you"

So start getting her both. Show her you love her and care about her feelings and never ever will trample her feelings again.

Answer 9

Just don't let whatever somebody is doing to you to bother you. You can't control their actions but you can ignore them and it won't seem as bad as if you let it get to you.HOPE THIS HELPS!

Answer 10

if you know she's playing games again, refuse to play........just tell her that you don't want to play that game again. if you reject the game and let her know that you know it's a game, it's no fn for her.